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Husband’s pain

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CanadianGran Thu 30-Apr-26 21:29:34

Don't be hard on yourself; it can be very stressful looking after a spouse with a disability or illness. It's normal to feel a little resentfulness, but important that it is not expressed to our loved one.

Can you find some ways to still do things that give you joy, even though you can't do them with your partner? For instance, my DH cannot ski any more, but certainly is accepting of me going with other family or friends.

pooger24 Thu 30-Apr-26 19:29:09

I am feeling very sad and alone watching my husband in pain. He has very bad sciatica and has had an operation which has not worked. They are trying alternatives but meanwhile he is really struggling. Sometimes I dislike myself for feeling envious of other people who have able-bodied partners as life has become very limited