Don't be hard on yourself; it can be very stressful looking after a spouse with a disability or illness. It's normal to feel a little resentfulness, but important that it is not expressed to our loved one.
Can you find some ways to still do things that give you joy, even though you can't do them with your partner? For instance, my DH cannot ski any more, but certainly is accepting of me going with other family or friends.
William and Catherine’s Anniversary Photo


