My doll's house came today which I ordered off ebay. I bought it because I have been looking for one which was as alike to one I had as a child as I could get. This one is perfect. Strangely I have had a warm glow since opening it. From my childhood, all apart from my Tiny Tears has been got rid of in one way or another, all without my knowledge or consent at the time. This probably happened while I was at school. Now, thinking back I had some lovely things, a matchbox collection which took me years to build up, the Diddymen, Wade pottery, my Tiny Tears accessories (bath, highchair, coach built pram) and plenty of other things which I loved and cherished. I do think they were probably sold on. (My mother also sneaked into my room to read my diary.)
I have never in my childrens lives thrown anything away without their consent and knowledge.
So in getting my doll's house, I feel part of me has come back, if that doesn't sound too strange. I don't even know if I will kit it out, just to have the house is comforting enough.
I don't know how a parent can throw away or sell a child's belonging and gifts (let's face it, they weren't theirs to get rid of). Has anyone else had this happen to them?
Also, to do with the past, the family photos got put outside by someone (my mother blames my dad) and they all got water damaged, so now I have very few photos of growing up, probably less than six. And we had loads. Very upsetting to lose them.