We live in London and have slowly worked our way up the housing ladder over the last however many decade (I appreciate we are extremely lucky to be on the ladder at all and to own a property)
Now the children have left home we have more space than we need so have made the decision to downsize. We have seen a little house we want to buy. It's not dissimilar in price to the one we are selling but it's in a much nicer area with a lovely community feel and many of our friends live there (not far from where we are now but we much prefer it) so it's as much about lifestyle as the house itself
It's been a good decade since we last moved and in this time stamp duty has gone through the roof. Even having negotiated with the agent we are selling with to the lowest percentage those costs are also high. Then you have to factor in solicitors and surveys and searches. The latter are not the end of the world but when you add everything up you realise that moving costs alone are going to be tens and tens of thousands of pounds.
I'm finding it totally depressing that the very act of moving is going to use up all our savings and more and that we will end up with a bigger mortgage on a smaller house which seems madness.
We could of course stay put but the area has changed a lot since we moved here and we don't feel particularly safe - also it is not good for transport or shops which as we get older is something we wanted to think about. Almost all our friends live where we want to move to.
We are trying to plan for the future in practical terms but appear to be decimating our financial future by doing so. No longer sure what to do
(Yes - we could move to a cheaper area but then we would also be moving away from friends and family. And we have also considered a smaller property but need (and want) somewhere for family to come and stay so a one bedroom property doesn't work for us)
Using the Verb Get or variations of Get
A famous matador gored by bull!
Welsh Senedd Election - PR in action. This will be interesting!




