I have just lost my post grr!
So I will just say that I have a family member who with her DH has lived in an over 55 apartment and loves it
Moved for health reasons.
Her family also like that their parents are now set up with future care packages on offer.
The service charges are high but include heating and 24/7 on call reception and laundry facilities.
They have a lovely restaurant, gym, hairdressers (envious no going out in all weather after you've had your hair done).
A film, games room with full sized snooker table.
Lovely gardens and seating area includinf a roof garden.
The DGS love to visit and play DGDad at snooker, also think its brilliant to go to restaurant for a plate of chips to take back to grandparent's flat..
According to 'them' their golden years are taken care of and feel that their family will now have a lot less concerns and worry.