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Packing to move. Downsizing. Yes right!

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craftyone Fri 01-Mar-19 08:34:28

I have given away about 1/3 of a house, to the hospice shop, family, neighbours and to ever grateful workers at the tip. It has taken me several years, starting when husband died. I was one of the ones who needed to get on and do it in a hurry, the initial clearing

The pace slowed but load after load went to the hospice shop and I saw the gift aid receipts with a smile on my face, did something good with it all. Reserved a new build, 7 months ago so the pace increased. My house did not sell for 6 months, so I slowed down because my mind did not accept that I would actually move. Christmas holiday was lonely so I added more crafting stash and more since.

It hit me last night, when I finished yet another crafted item. I am moving, really am moving. All that downsizing helped but my crafting things spread and I added a lot to my food stores, I blame march 29th for that, media hype and potential winter snowing in, isolated village here

I re-started this morning, packed 2 boxes. I still feel in limbo but this is going to happen. Oh yes, the reason for the thread, I am not getting packers in, would need to sort at that end, might as well sort now but I can still see that I will have to let things go when I am there. No box is too heavy for me btw and it is kind of therapeutic

How did you tackle packing if you did it on your own? Are you in process of packing or downsizing for a future move?

travelsafar Sun 10-Mar-19 08:22:35

Have you moved yet???

craftyone Sun 10-Mar-19 12:13:57

7 months on and still waiting, one piece of paper left, an agreement about sewer adoption, now in process but am at the mercy of the utility company. I have a great solicitor, very diligent on my behalf. Today I finished all I can do inside and spent time outside, emptying 2 big corten steel containers, was hard work but done. Corten steel will be a focus in my new small garden

travelsafar Sun 10-Mar-19 20:33:56

hope it all goes well for you when you finally get the thumbs up.

craftyone Fri 15-Mar-19 07:37:27

The last leg, the battle of the solicitors. Vendors is trying to slip incomplete paperwork through, to get me to exchange. My solicitor is diligent and has my back, advised me not to exchange until we have sight of the completed document, a letter in the post as mentioned by the vendor solicitor, just will not do. My reply is to trust my own solicitor.

Was heavily backed up by AC last night, his e mail to me wrt `a letter in the post` could have caused huge potential problems in the financial sector in which he works. Dodgy eh? Keep on toes throughout and best word of advice is to employ a very good solicitor, on recommendation if possible

So another week, maybe another month. Sigh

craftyone Mon 20-May-19 04:08:14

oh crikey!! 10 days on, fully moved in and the downsizing has to continue. Oh hells bells, when will it stop