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buying a 2nd property to be near grandchildren

(35 Posts)
Chardy Thu 25-Jun-20 09:46:57

Sounds wonderful. I'm jealous (and don't like the idea of 2nd homes at all as I live by the sea, but it sounds great)

flopen Wed 24-Jun-20 18:35:29

Thanks all.

sodapop Wed 24-Jun-20 17:40:09

Sounds like an ideal arrangement for everyone flopen Go for it. Life is too short to procrastinate. CrazyH had some sensible advice too.

Namsnanny Wed 24-Jun-20 17:35:08

Sorry hope I made myself clear earlier, when I said
not a burden to daughter
I meant by not staying in her house, you would be the perfect visitor!

We spent many years by the sea, and had numerous visitors who thought of us as their free B&B.
We didnt mind for the first 5/6 years but became a bugbear when we were clearly being taken for granted!

twinnytwin Wed 24-Jun-20 12:45:10

Sounds perfect to me. Go for it.

flopen Wed 24-Jun-20 12:44:58

I've checked that my daughter's OK with it (and her partner)!

crazyH Wed 24-Jun-20 12:44:18

Lovely idea - if you have the money, why not ? You could also probably rent it out, when you're not using it . I don't think it's anything to do with her daughter where she chooses to buy her second home. And besides, daughter will be happy to have a baby-sitter on call. BUT, make sure you form your own friendships, join a club, so that you are not in your daughter's way. And don't buy too near your daughter's house.

Namsnanny Wed 24-Jun-20 12:38:06

What's not to like?
Come and go as you like. Not a burden to daughter.
Just dont drop in unannounced!!
Enjoy smile

Tangerine Wed 24-Jun-20 12:37:29

No, I haven't but, if you get on with your daughter and can afford it, why not try it?

You could always sell the property at a later stage if necessary although I accept that this can be stressful etc.

If you bought a flat, perhaps you would have somewhere ready-made to move into if you couldn't manage a larger property.

What do your daughter and partner think?

flopen Wed 24-Jun-20 12:34:23

Our daughter has recently moved to a new part of the country with her partner and young children.
We really like where she lives and are lucky enough to have some spare cash, and were thinking of buying a small property nearby as a second home.
Has anyone done this - and has it worked well?