Thank you Charleygirl5, you understood my intentions in one. 
I am feeling very lucky, I have 2 immediate neighbours, male with lady friends and we have become a small community already, we help each other and in fact only last week, one put an oak mantle up for me, it was too heavy to do by myself. It has taken us a year and we have all been very careful but already we have (plus ladyfriends) formed an attachment to each other, We help out where we can and give each other things like spare veg and cake and de-cluttered tools and we water each others plants if needed
This covid stuff put the kibosh on making new friends, my plans were to go forward with this in may but of course everything ceased. All we can do now in my neighbourhood is keep an eye on each other, even if only in a superficial way for now.
Re preps for winter: having been suddenly snowed in for 6 weeks in the recent past and being semi-rural, I do keep good stocks in for winter. I have received my flours today, wholemeal spelt and rye, not available locally. I hear that the grain harvest has been poor this year