For most of my married life I relied on hand-me-down and second hand furniture. I coped with cooking for seven in a very small kitchen, and put up with everyone complaining about not being able to get into the bathroom.
Years after the children had flown the nest we could finally afford to extend and remodel the kitchen, exchange the bath for a large walk-in shower, and install a downstairs loo.
The rest of the house is still much the same, but my DD and GD, their 2 dogs and all their furniture moved in 3 months ago, and are likely to be here for many more months until their new house is renovated. I gave away my large sofa and dining table to make more space. Once they have moved out I may take the plunge and completely redo my living room, which has never happened in the 55 years I have lived here. At 81, common sense tells me not to bother, but I have never, ever, gone out and bought a complete new ‘look’ for a room. I have had one hell of a year., in many ways. Maybe I will enjoy the experience, and a fresh start.