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Is this Doomsday or a New Beginning?

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Granny23 Mon 30-Aug-21 10:50:39

This afternoon I will hear if my bid on a modern ground floor flat in a small, private, courtyard style development has been successful. If it is the 135 yo cottage with an enormous garden, which has been our family home for 48 years, renovated and extended by us will go on the market.

I know it makes sense, as the cottage is in need of upgrading and the once productive garden has sadly returned to the jungle it was when we first moved here. I am income poor, cannot afford tradesmen/gardeners. etc. whereas the sale will give me a nest egg, to be invested and the flat (2 bands down for Council Tax) will be much cheaper to heat, etc. Many sensible reasons to move, but it will be a huge change.

On balance I hope I get the flat, because I would hate to go through this turmoil again.

glammanana Tue 31-Aug-21 10:53:37

Congratulations on your offer being accepted it is possible for the 3 week exchange maybe not completion though time is very tight
Paying a wee bit extra for searches to be done by hand may speed up the process I have heard of this being done before to save time,wishing you all the luck in the world .

JaneJudge Tue 31-Aug-21 10:15:35

Congratulations smile

luluaugust Tue 31-Aug-21 10:12:26

Fingers crossed for you, hopefully you will be able to show that you have a buyer and sale is going through and that will be enough. The searches often hold things up. Make sure you have all the necessary paperwork ready for the Solicitors. I wonder why this condition has been made?

timetogo2016 Tue 31-Aug-21 09:52:33

Fingers,eyes and legs crossed for you Granny23.

Aveline Tue 31-Aug-21 09:47:00

She's in Scotland. Formal notes of interest might be enough to demonstrate that the sale is highly likely.

Franbern Tue 31-Aug-21 08:48:38

Hate to put a dampner on this - but THREE WEEKS for Completion is virtually impossible. Even if you managed to find a real cash buyer for your cottage (so, no mortgage needed), solicitors will hardly have started to get together all the searches, etc required in three weeks - three months would be more realistic (with a good Solicitor and a lot of Good Luck).

Nannylovesshopping Mon 30-Aug-21 21:17:32

Yay, congratulations, hope you enjoy your new home???

Kalu Mon 30-Aug-21 21:11:27

reek…..blooming predictive text??‍♀️

Kalu Mon 30-Aug-21 21:08:00

So pleased for you Granny23. Please don’t exhaust yourself trying to get everything done alone. Accept all offers of help and even ask for it from friends and family.
I wish you all the best and lang may yer new lum leak. ?

Whatdayisit Mon 30-Aug-21 20:45:12

Good luck Granny23. It is Doomsday. Hopefully a new start with a financial burden lifted from you.
Sounds like you will have a lot of stress or hoops to go through before you can settle. First hurdle getting the flat is done so fingers crossed for everything else to fall into place soon for you.

GrandmaKT Mon 30-Aug-21 20:39:22

Congratulations on having your offer accepted! I hope they are not making it a condition of the sale that you complete in three weeks?! For a house that isn't even on the market yet, that is impossible!

mokryna Mon 30-Aug-21 20:33:50

Congratulations on having your offer accepted. Hope you have a quick sale. ?

eazybee Mon 30-Aug-21 20:33:11

Complete within three weeks?
And they have only just told you this?
Be careful.

Aveline Mon 30-Aug-21 20:27:40

Great news indeed. That's a lot of pressure to sell though. Mind you properties are being snapped up right now. I'm sure your family will help with the cleaning and tidying.
Good luck with it all and every happiness in your new home.

Granny23 Mon 30-Aug-21 20:09:53

Good News! My offer was accepted. Not so good News - there is a condition attached that my current house has to be put on the market immediately, with a view to be able to complete the sale within 3 weeks. So Agent coming tomorrow to take photographs shock and I'll be up all night cleaning and tidying [shame]

AGAA4 Mon 30-Aug-21 16:50:34

I hope you get your flat Granny23. I moved from my big cash guzzling old house to a flat and it was a big relief to be somewhere I could manage.

Germanshepherdsmum Mon 30-Aug-21 16:02:21

Yes, good luck. A big wrench but it would make life so much easier and less worrying. Worrying about how to maintain an old property and big garden and how to pay the bills takes so much of the joy out of life. Will you let us know how you get on?

annsixty Mon 30-Aug-21 13:06:07

You are doing a wise thing Granny23, I wish I had done it after my H died.
We have been in our house 44 years and it is far too big but my GD came to live with me 6 months after he died and my dysfunctional S has a room here for when his life goes pear shaped, long and personal story.
I also feel too old for the disruption, I had decorators in 3 weeks ago and I am not totally over the stress of that.
Good luck with your offer and I hope everything goes well for you.

GillT57 Mon 30-Aug-21 13:00:21

Fingers crossed for you, keep us updated, positive result or otherwise, we have all been there!

Skydancer Mon 30-Aug-21 12:59:19

You'll never look back. We moved from a big house and huge garden - both of which I loved. Paid off the mortgage. Life became so much easier.

sodapop Mon 30-Aug-21 12:54:34

Fingers crossed here too Granny life will be easier and less stressful in your new home.

Kalu Mon 30-Aug-21 12:10:49

Although your heart will be sore to leave your family home Granny23, you know in your head, moving into a flat is the sensible thing to do, financially and maintenance free of the upkeep required for a larger property and large garden.

I hope this wise moves goes smoothly for you. Less worry for you and you will still have your DDs and family around you. I wish you all the best for the future.

Soozikinzi Mon 30-Aug-21 11:57:57

Definitely a new beginning for you but I do understand your feelings of course . Hope all runs smoothly for you ??

Jaxjacky Mon 30-Aug-21 11:55:45

I hope you’re successful too, it’s definitely a new beginning ?.

Aveline Mon 30-Aug-21 10:57:52

It's a horrible stage you're at Granny23. I really hope you get the flat. Once the upheaval of it all settles down I bet you'll feel a lot better. The family will be glad you're in a better place too and with far fewer worries about upkeep.
On the brighter side, your cottage will be available to another family to love and look after. You will be giving them the opportunity to make it a family home going into the future.
Fingers crossed for this afternoon.