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Do you get rid of things because they are old-fashioned?

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CanadianGran Tue 31-Aug-21 22:20:11

I started thinking about my table lamps in the living room. They are brass, from the early 80's, good quality. I need new shades and was looking around websites to see what shape of shade is more 'in' but sadly I am realizing my lamps are sadly out of fashion.

I have a new couch and chair on order, so now wondering if I should indulge in new lamps, or just replace the shades on perfectly good quality lamps, if they are a little stodgy.

Will they end up on Antiques Roadshow one day, with someone saying "I picked them up at a charity shop for almost nothing!", or will I just end up with a living room that screams 'Seniors live here!" if I keep them?

Please excuse any punctuation errors.

HannahLoisLuke Thu 02-Sept-21 13:10:44

PS. I’m still on magnolia ?

JaneD666 Thu 02-Sept-21 13:32:54

I took a leaf out my my Mum's book. She was an artist, and when setting up home in the 1950s went for a very stylish modern look (not the usual 50s stuff). However, she soon discovered that it dated quite quickly, and switched to antique decor, because she said it never went out of fashion! (She did keep one room modern - my parents' studio.) I love antique furniture, and it doesn't matter if it's a little worn and marked - that's part of it's history. Mind you, I do live in a period house - it wouldn't look right in a new-build.

jaylucy Thu 02-Sept-21 13:36:33

If I no longer like things, I will get rid of them, usually to a charity shop but sometimes easier just to buy new shades - at least until you get a chance to see if the look good with the new sofa!

GreenGran78 Thu 02-Sept-21 13:47:29

Married for 58 years, with five children, our house was furnished with hand-me-downs and second-hand stuff. DH had to retire early, due to poor health, so nothing much was changed. Now I am finally living alone, after 8 months of harbouring DD GD 2 dogs and all their possessions, while their new house was being renovated. Finally having the place to myself has spurred me on to having a good old clear-out. Things that haven’t been used for years have been ejected. My large dining table and chairs has been replaced by more practical and space-saving ones. The big sideboard has given way to lower and more modern storage, and various other items have been sold or given away. All my new purchases are from our local charity shop, and I’m very pleased with my new look.
The house that DD has bought had only one couple living there from when it was built in 1952. The lovely, but old-fashioned carpets were the ones originally bought by them, at great expense. (She was given all the original invoices) They were still in very good condition, but DD was going to consign them to the skip. I Freecycled them, and a young couple, buying their first home, snapped them up along with some curtains. Amazingly they fitted the new rooms very well,, and they were delighted to have them. I hate to throw anything away!

Shropshirelass Thu 02-Sept-21 14:22:54

If you like the style but not the fact that they are brass, you could have them chromed to bring them more up to date, with new shades they would look very different.

Musicgirl Thu 02-Sept-21 14:25:29

I have always liked a bargain and second hand. Pre-loved is the modern term for it. Much of our downstairs furniture is Nathan, gleaned from charity shops. It is what is known as MCM (Mid Century Modern) and l believe is starting to make a comeback but we bought it because we like it and it is solid wood not chipboard - the quality is far superior to its modern equivalent. What has cost us a few hundred pounds in total would cost many thousands of pounds if it were possible to buy that quality today. Surely by the time we reach our time of life our homes reflect our personality and taste rather than slavery to the latest trends. We keep things we like whether or not they are fashionable. Personally, the very last thing I would want would be that depressing shade of grey paint that has been so popular in recent years, coupled with the "Live, Laugh, Love" plaque on the wall.

Mistymoocake Thu 02-Sept-21 15:13:41

Most of the things in our house are victorian or victorian looking. They are sturdy so don't break and if they mark it gives them more age. We have had this look for many years and will not change. Most people admire it but I understand would not nessesserily want to live in it. It suits us.

I have seen many modern rooms that I like but the cost of continuely changing to keep up with the times would have bancrupted us and all the work no not for us.

Jillybird Thu 02-Sept-21 15:28:17

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hazel93 Thu 02-Sept-21 15:44:43

If you like 'em keep 'em ! As others have said just upcycle !
Personally I like to mix old with modern , present kitchen units are high gloss and sit quite happily with a 19th. century dresser, scrubbed pine dining table an upcycled sideboard ( inherited) and a mix of modern and "old" paintings/ prints.
Each to their own I say !

queenofsaanich69 Thu 02-Sept-21 16:41:06

I love and treasure certain things that have been given to me,it makes me think of the people when ( & if) I dust them,I know some look old fashioned but if I live long enough they will be fashionable again.

CBBL Thu 02-Sept-21 17:09:55

If I liked the lamps, I would keep them, perhaps try to make some shades, if I were not able to find something suitable. Maybe paint them, if you want to change them in some way!
I don't worry about fashion - old or otherwise!
On the other hand, if I were tired of them, I would donate to freecycle or a charity shop!

Beanie654321 Thu 02-Sept-21 19:26:10

Why not strip shade frame and recover, it's very easy as you reaffix using tape and glue. If you love some thing it doesn't matter how old it is or what others say about it. I have a friend who buys every thing second hand as her home is fitted out in 1950s, I and many others love it.

Dinahmo Thu 02-Sept-21 19:30:36

beth20

We sold a lot of my MIL's china at auction recently. Top seller was the set of three flying ducks from the dining room wall - started a bidding war!

They were trendy in the 60's. Things go round and come round.

GrannyGravy13 Thu 02-Sept-21 20:16:52

I would have said no this afternoon, but now does anyone want a 70 yr old man, one careful lady owner…

Bijou Thu 02-Sept-21 20:51:51

I have nothing new in my house except my riser/recliner chair. Everything from a round mahogany coffee table which my mother bought when I was a baby to 1960s drinks cabinet. Many things nowadays are bought for their appearance not usefulness.
All my tapestry cushions were made by me as are most of the pictures the rest are watercolours painted by my husband of places visited in France.

Iwtwab12bow Thu 02-Sept-21 20:52:01

Oh no,they are now " retro" . Guess what ? I have an Emma Peel cat suit in my wardrobe it's purple, l can't get into it anymore but.....

Callistemon Thu 02-Sept-21 21:11:56

beth20

We sold a lot of my MIL's china at auction recently. Top seller was the set of three flying ducks from the dining room wall - started a bidding war!

Somewhere in the attic we have a set of those from MIL's house - of course, one is broken!

CV2020 Thu 02-Sept-21 22:16:07

I love my shiny white kitchen. The gloss fours are so easy to clean. It’s 11years old now and still going strong.

Theoddbird Fri 03-Sept-21 08:34:23

I love vintage. I bought some more 80 plus year old hand embroidered table clothes yesterday for a few pound in a second hand store when I was at the coast. I love old things. I don't do buying new. If you love the lamp keep it...it works...why get rid of it?

Mamma66 Fri 03-Sept-21 09:24:13

I have absolutely loved this post. Nothing wrong in ‘old fashioned’ things. My view is if you like the lamps keep them, if you don’t pass them on to someone else who will appreciate them. I also think that mixing old and contemporary, different woods, different styles of furniture can work. Hopefully the photos of our living room will demonstrate…

GrannySomerset Fri 03-Sept-21 09:41:57

We have spent all the money not spent on holidays having all the sitting room furniture reupholstered. Buying new would have cost less but we like our elderly sofa, chairs and ottoman and they fit the available space. Everything is at least 40 years old, with the ottoman nearer 90, bought by DH’s parents soon after their marriage in 1927. Am delighted that nothing other than the old fabric and stuffing has been sent to landfill.

Caleo Fri 03-Sept-21 10:05:17

Beanie:
"Why not strip shade frame and recover, it's very easy as you reaffix using tape and glue".

I wish I had known about this years ago! I still have one lamp that needs a new shade. Do you know of a website with explicit instructions, Beanie?

Callistemon Fri 03-Sept-21 10:28:23

Mamma66

I have absolutely loved this post. Nothing wrong in ‘old fashioned’ things. My view is if you like the lamps keep them, if you don’t pass them on to someone else who will appreciate them. I also think that mixing old and contemporary, different woods, different styles of furniture can work. Hopefully the photos of our living room will demonstrate…

Complete with dog reclining gracefully!! ?

It looks lovely, Mamma66. We have dark furniture too, definitely out of fashion at the moment but we like it.

MayBee70 Fri 03-Sept-21 13:13:00

Although I went through a phase of Annie Sloaning lots of furniture it worries me that people are Frenchic’ing furniture that is beautiful as it is. I do make a point if only painting stuff that is mdf or knotty pine’ish. What I don’t understand is why I suddenly see something in a new light when it comes back into fashion. Why does my brain suddenly go from couldn’t live with that to ‘wow’? Am I really so shallow (alas, yes). Still breaks my heart to think of the sideboard DH gave to a charity shop when his mum died. They were just coming back into fashion.

Mamma66 Sat 04-Sept-21 02:36:08

Thank you Callistemon, the dog is a a Lurcher, predominately Greyhound, and is an Olympic gold winner at reclining… ?