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What makes a house a home?

(113 Posts)
Audi10 Sun 12-Sept-21 12:18:12

As everyone’s idea of a homely house is very different , what is it in your opinion that makes a home homely! For me it’s somewhere that’s clean, comfy sofas lots cushions, pets, fresh flowers, music on, tea on tap, somewhere you can just relax without the worry of someone swiping your cup away as soon as you’ve put it down, a calm house, but one that has lots of laughter,

Polarbear2 Sun 12-Sept-21 12:21:43

Above minus pets. ?

FannyCornforth Sun 12-Sept-21 12:24:42

Above minus clean ?

crazyH Sun 12-Sept-21 12:25:18

I have all the above Audi10, except pets, because I have severe allergies. I live alone, so all my laughter comes from watching comedy programmes…….

Galaxy Sun 12-Sept-21 12:25:19

Apparently a house rabbit, as ours feels very empty this week sad

FannyCornforth Sun 12-Sept-21 12:25:24

Obvs that’s my house, not my ideal house

FannyCornforth Sun 12-Sept-21 12:25:56

Galaxy

Apparently a house rabbit, as ours feels very empty this week sad

Oh no, I’m sorry to hear that flowers

rafichagran Sun 12-Sept-21 12:28:16

The above, plus whatever makes it personal to my partner and myself.

Galaxy Sun 12-Sept-21 12:28:59

Thanks fanny. He was old and had had a lovely life. He wasnt supposed to live in the house grin. Its funny though what makes a house feel like a home, so individual.

silverlining48 Sun 12-Sept-21 12:34:25

Love

Blossoming Sun 12-Sept-21 12:41:01

“A home without a cat — and a well-fed, well-petted and properly revered cat — may be a perfect home, perhaps, but how can it prove title?”
― Mark Twain, Pudd'nhead Wilson

Audi10 Sun 12-Sept-21 12:48:57

Sorry to hear that galaxy

Judy54 Sun 12-Sept-21 13:53:54

The people you share it with your family and friends who visit. A house is not a home unless it is filled with love.

Sara1954 Sun 12-Sept-21 13:57:36

Clean, tidy, warm, lots of books, candles, photos, and lots of colour and texture, preferably a fire burning.

foxie48 Sun 12-Sept-21 14:08:32

A dog on the sofa, OH pottering in the garden or the house and something nice cooking in the kitchen (preferably on the aga) because my daughter is coming for lunch.

JaneJudge Sun 12-Sept-21 14:11:46

I'm sorry about your rabbit galaxy sad we had a couple when the children were little and the one lived until it was 10 and I remember the children were beside themselves. My daughter still talks about the rabbit now. She didn't really like me though and made it known even though I was the one who used to care for her hmm (the rabbit not my daughter)

JaneJudge Sun 12-Sept-21 14:12:59

my house is a bit of a mess atm, it's getting on my nerves

LauraNorder Sun 12-Sept-21 14:22:15

Somewhere where you just feel content when you’re in it.

Galaxy Sun 12-Sept-21 14:27:26

Sorry I didnt mean to derail thread with my rabbit woe, thanks everyone though.
I really like Laura's definition.

kittylester Sun 12-Sept-21 14:48:49

Somewhere you want to go back to.

FannyCornforth Sun 12-Sept-21 14:52:51

JaneJudge

my house is a bit of a mess atm, it's getting on my nerves

Mine is driving me up the wall.
I’ve just booked online for a trip to the tip.
It would have been easier to get an audience with the Pope

JaneJudge Sun 12-Sept-21 14:59:07

grin grin grin

Brocky Sun 12-Sept-21 15:00:23

Full of love, with friends and family visiting. Welcoming with kettle ready to make a pot of tea.

Jaxjacky Sun 12-Sept-21 15:41:38

This made me think about houses we visit, friends and family. So, clean, warm, with good lighting, but it’s the people we go to see.
Preferably not smelling of pets with fur everywhere, not dingy and not cluttered, with clean bathrooms and kitchen.
Can’t judge how others see ours, but people still come round!

threexnanny Sun 12-Sept-21 16:03:34

Children and grandchildren feeling free to pop round whenever and treat it like their own, but without the mess if possible! smile