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Additional needs child..

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Dee1012 Sun 16-Jan-22 20:04:46

Oopsadaisy1

You’re right, it is a sensitive issue.
The family can’t help making noise that echos through into your friends flat, although most modern apartments have already had sound proofing installed when they are being built.
I think that if your friend contacts the Landlord about the noise, the family will be asked to leave at the end of their Lease, (probably 6 months) rather than sound proofing being installed.
If this is what your friend wants to happen then fair enough.
The alternative to living with the problem is for your friend to leave.
A cautionary tale for anyone purchasing an apartment that isn’t on the top floor.

It isn't a modern building, which might have helped the issue...

From talking to the family, it appears they are related to the landlord in some way which adds to the complexity.
A neighbour at the side plans to involve environmental health, the noise levels can be horrendous.

Personally moving was the only other option I could think of but again, would the noise issue need to be declared?

Oopsadaisy1 Sun 16-Jan-22 19:30:25

You’re right, it is a sensitive issue.
The family can’t help making noise that echos through into your friends flat, although most modern apartments have already had sound proofing installed when they are being built.
I think that if your friend contacts the Landlord about the noise, the family will be asked to leave at the end of their Lease, (probably 6 months) rather than sound proofing being installed.
If this is what your friend wants to happen then fair enough.
The alternative to living with the problem is for your friend to leave.
A cautionary tale for anyone purchasing an apartment that isn’t on the top floor.

Dee1012 Sun 16-Jan-22 19:02:30

I'd really appreciate any advice with a sensitive issue.

A close friend bought a flat about 2 years ago, she's very happy with it.
Ideal location, cost etc.

About 12 months ago a young couple moved into the flat above which is rented, they have two children.
Roughly 3 weeks after they moved in problems with noise began - shouting, screaming, banging etc. It wasn't unusual for the noises to begin at 4/5 a.m and they would continue intermittently throughout the day and night.
My friends initial thoughts were domestic abuse and she raised concerns with the relevant agencies.
Cutting a very long story short...the elder child has Autism and that's why there's so many issues with noise etc.

She's trying to be understanding of how difficult it is for the young family and doesn't want to keep complaining to them but is struggling with the impact on her...she works from home and has had a lot of problems with the noise.
She's now sleeping in the kitchen because it's quieter in that room...or she stays with me to get some sleep several times a week

She loves her flat and doesn't want to sell / move and even if she did, financially it would be extremely difficult.

I've suggested she speaks to the landlord of the property and asks about soundproofing etc.
Does anyone have any other suggestions and/or advice?