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Candles, do you like it dislike them

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rafichagran Wed 16-Feb-22 15:10:33

I love candles, the smell and the ambience, cheers my house up on a day like today, very overcast.
I love going round the charity shops and buying known brands. I do not pay more than £3.00 for the named brands. I have noticed the best time to buy them is now, as people seem to donate them as unwanted Christmas presents. I am burning a Oliver Bonus one now a bargain at £2.99. I also like Yankee and Neom.
If you like them, what are your favourites?

rafichagran Thu 17-Feb-22 10:42:13

The responses here are what I expected. I have friends who love them, and are very easy to buy for at Christmas, and I have friends who dislike them, or hate them.
I think candles are very marmite, and people dislike them because the scents make them feel I'll, or they feel they can be dangerous. I love them but respect both points if view.

Moggycuddler Thu 17-Feb-22 11:02:28

I used to like them years ago. But I have read in numerous sources that the fumes they give off as they burn are toxic and may contribute to cancer. They are bad for humans and very bad for pets. So I never use them now. Nor air fresheners (except a quick burst very occasionally and I make sure I don't breathe it in and my cats are well away. Of all household fragrances, I prefer the more pure incense cones, burned with a window open.

pen50 Thu 17-Feb-22 11:20:15

Loathe all scented candles. Like unscented ones for Christmas and special occasions.

Alioop Thu 17-Feb-22 11:23:00

I usually use the unscented ones as I have chronic sinusitis and some of the strong perfumed ones really sets it off. I love sitting in the evenings with the candles flickering as it makes the room feel cosy. My friend is a fireman and he tuts when he comes into my house because the candles are lit as he's been to fires caused by them.

tigger Thu 17-Feb-22 11:25:07

Yankee, lavender

HannahLoisLuke Thu 17-Feb-22 11:25:57

tanith

Can’t abide them, fills the house with sickly smelling fumes and chemicals. No thankyou.

Nor me, they irritate my lungs and start me wheezing. I do like a good quality natural infuser? though.

FindingNemo15 Thu 17-Feb-22 11:26:19

I have several candles, but I never light them so I suppose they are ornaments! Even dust collectors! Worry about the fire hazard and some can be sickly.

MissAdventure Thu 17-Feb-22 11:29:11

Surely candles must follow the same safety checks as other household items?
How can they possibly be sold if they are likely to cause cancer or other serious health issues?

Skye17 Thu 17-Feb-22 11:31:47

I like unscented candles but hate scented ones.

brownbunny17 Thu 17-Feb-22 11:35:38

Sorry, but don't like them ! They make me wheeze, same as wood burners. Have battery night lights, they work for me.

Pudding123 Thu 17-Feb-22 11:37:56

I love candles especially in the dark winter months,I love the gentle cheery light they give off and the light scent I have been slightly concerned regarding the possible chemical fumes aspect but usually only light them at weekend.
I like Yankee and Harry Slatkin but have been gifted some very expensive ones which I wouldn't buy .

Hymnbook Thu 17-Feb-22 11:38:19

QVC sell Harry Slatkin

Skye17 Thu 17-Feb-22 11:42:08

According to this article,

‘Inhaling any type of smoke can be unhealthy. If you plan on using candles regularly, it’s a good idea to burn them in a ventilated room to minimize the amount of smoke you breathe in.’

It also says,

‘ Burning scented candles can release volatile organic compounds like formaldehyde that may increase your cancer risk. Even though scented candles release these compounds, it isn’t clear if they impact your health.’

www.healthline.com/health/are-candles-bad-for-you

Until there’s clear data showing that scented candles don’t impact your health, I personally would rather avoid them (even if I liked them, which I don’t). I prefer to err on the side of caution.

MissAdventure Thu 17-Feb-22 11:44:08

Thanks skye17
smile

Happysexagenarian Thu 17-Feb-22 11:45:37

I love candles, scented or unscented. I don't have a favourite brand. DH bought me a small Yankee candle four Christmases ago and it's still going strong as I only light it occasionally. Some jar candles that I've been given are so lovely that I don't light them just sniff at them now and then! My DS gave me a beautiful hand carved candle which it would be sacrilege to burn. I also like hand rolled beeswax candles, such a delicious scent. The only problem I have with candles is keeping them clean, they attract dust like a magnet.

Bijou Thu 17-Feb-22 11:48:25

Waste of money and useless.

handbaghoarder Thu 17-Feb-22 11:49:29

I love candles and night lights but only unscented. Any perfumed ones trigger migraine and nausea so going to other peoples homes, restaurants etc can be tricky. Dare I say I have battery candles and night lights, with timers. They are amazing, though obviously have the inevitable detrimental effect on the environment. I use them sparsely and love them even “ unlit” Cant imagine my home without candles, cushions and throws

Cid24 Thu 17-Feb-22 11:50:30

My daughter makes candles. She uses only natural and pure ingredients . They are lovely . Biodegradable packaging too, all safety tested. So with hers you won’t get any nasties as you might with the artificial perfumes. Let me know if you want further details ☺️

Georgesgran Thu 17-Feb-22 11:52:09

Candle lover here as are both my DDs. I also find that lighting them at night seems to make the room feel warmer - sounds stupid, but just my thoughts. Prefer light scents and Price do special ones to eliminate kitchen and smoking fumes.

Lovetravel Thu 17-Feb-22 11:53:10

I love candles but they don’t like me! Especially Yankee candles. They give me a wheezy chest and make me cough. This also happens to my husband and daughter. So I only burn them in large areas and not for too long.

Sue450 Thu 17-Feb-22 11:53:19

Tesco large candle in a jar knocked down to £3. From £8 sea salt lovely.
Shoreham in kent has the hop farm shop has the most amazing candles sandalwood, lavender etc, they are £8. But the room smells amazing.
Not keen on Yankee candles.

Mamma7 Thu 17-Feb-22 11:58:15

Love them all year but especially in winter have a least 2 on the go during the day. Yankee and TkMaxx especially the coffee/salted caramel/chocolate scents but around Christmas I always have the Christmas tree ones. In Summer I have floral/coconut.

Ro60 Thu 17-Feb-22 12:00:58

Hope you're still enjoying your week off. Rafichagran
I like candles - But since I left one burning & went to work I steer away from them these days. I had to call my DD to come to work to collect my keys to go & put it out for me - then return back to me with my keys. She wasn't happy.
I had a friend who would light one on the landing in the morning when she got up so, for anyone stopping they were greeted by this beautiful glow as opposed to harsher lighting.

Nannina Thu 17-Feb-22 12:08:20

Won’t have them in the house since my son’s best friend, aged 16, died in a house fire caused by a piece of clothing falling on lit candles

Grantanow Thu 17-Feb-22 12:17:37

Church candles are very good - they don't smell like the scented ones and they burn slowly and regularly so they don't gutter and drip wax. But they cost more.