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30 bags in 30 days decluttering method

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Guesswhat Mon 23-Jan-23 22:14:03

Would anybody like to join me in this?

I’ve read about a method where you chuck out/donate one bag of clutter every day for 30 days. As an inveterate hoarder who wants to get on top of things at last, I’m going to go for it! (Only a carrier bag, mind. Not a big refuse sack.)

Tomorrow I’ll start with a bag of books to take to the charity shop. The day after, maybe some clothes. By recording my progress on here, I’m hoping to keep up the good work.

Wish me luck!

gigi05 Thu 26-Jan-23 14:14:58

I started decluttering three years ago-before the pandemic. I’m still at it, I’m not in a race, but my house is looking amazing. I can’t describe how my feelings of overwhelm have lessened. I can find things easily, a place for everything and everything in its place. I started by watching Minimal Mom on YouTube, then Cas at Clutterbug. They’ve given me constant encouragement as I’ve watched their videos, I’ve never paid for a course or anything. They’ve really helped with the emotional side of decluttering and guilt. Cas has a quiz that identifies your type of organisation, when I did it I just couldn’t believe how it described me exactly. The way I feel now, I don’t want my grown up family to have too big a job to do when anything happens to me. It’s just happened to a family member who has had to clear his Mum’s house, it’s an awful time. The process is entirely therapeutic for me, so I wish you lots of luck in your endeavours.

Yellowmellow Thu 26-Jan-23 14:00:54

I decluttered in lockdown. 9 bags went to the charity shop. Now l go through every couple of months. Today l took 2 bags into the local hospice shop. Rule now is, if l buy something new something goes I to the charity bag. Working well for me

Vintagegirl Thu 26-Jan-23 13:55:28

Lots of interesting comments here. I always keep a box/bag near fr door for charity collections from house... just try not to review stuff once bagged. If buying new shoes, try and dump some other pair. If putting item into attic, try and remove some other item. I recently had to clear my parents house of contents and there were 13 charity destinations for things including a sewing machine, DIY tools and garden tools. British Heart were the most obliging for taking the old fashioned sideboard etc. The local 'freegle' site generated a lot of interest and all items offered were taken... and collected from the address.

susie14 Thu 26-Jan-23 13:52:32

If you have any toys games or children's books, you could try getting in touch with your local hospital and the children's ward. Our local were so appreciative of my stash of games and gaming machines.

Tootsy Thu 26-Jan-23 13:35:53

This is wonderful. Just the encouragement I need. I will start after lunch. I need to carry on after the 30 days though. Good luck to you all and thank you.

oodles Thu 26-Jan-23 13:32:44

I've done a similar thing, 40 bags in 40 days, and first time I did it in Lent
It worked really well, I divided a piece of paper into 40 squares and every time I did a carrier bag full crossed one off, it doesn't have to be done every day, sorting through clothes often gave me a charity bag full of. Clothes which I counted as 2 carrier bags. Other days it took longer as things were a lot smaller so it sort of evened out.
I found it helpful.as it sort of got my decluttering muscles going and helped me think about it
It doesn't want to become a chore cos if it does you will not want to do it
30 or 40 carrier bags fill is quite a lot of things, I then tried a bit of reorganisation and that so often Leda to a bit more deckuttering. I got. Some shelves to put inside kitchen cupboards which meant less wasted space and I was able to have things better to hand.
I keep a bag for the charity shop and drop off as necessary. Obviously nothing unsaleable/rubbish. If I get something that works better for me I'll get rid of the old one either to someone else or the charity shop.
For various reasons I have a lot. Of old bathroom. Items, and have gone through them and am not buying any more until I need to. Some that I don't like or are say for a hair color I no longer have/want have been passed on, someone was delighted with the box of red dye I thought was now the wrong color, to a good cause or repurposed, eg bleugh cheap shower gel into handwash bottles, or filling up small bottles for when going away. Or for cleaning the bath out maybe.
If you do the decluttering little by little you have time to rehome/repurpose, and wanting to make sure stuff goes to a good home is one barrier to decluttering. I also try and do it going along, I'll think of some summer clothes that's not worth storing away, time to repurpose as rags, or if I've been too soft, I'll do the same when I unpack them for use.
As a he keeper I would say if you have egg boxes please reach out to your local hen keepers, obviously I don't buy eggs so rely on either buying egg boxes or getting them from other people. Offer clean washed Jars to the jamming community, offer gallon bottles of water to people like me who take water down to hens every day, better than me buying them if they already exist, useful for camping too. It is surprising what is useful to their people.
Someone offered on our local community group her late mother's craft items or she'd be taking them to the tip
I offered and picked them up. Lots of stuff to sort through. Useful fabric, tapestries started on frames, new tapestries, wool, and quilting supplies, including a nearly complete patchwork quilt
I sorted it into categories, took bits I thought I might use, including the quilt. Some of the tapestry patterns were nice but I thought I have others I need to finish and if I do finish them what will I do with them. I pulled one out as was unsure and thought it can always go another day. So I took stuff bagged up in categories on several trips, they all got sold, I kept an eye on them and was so pleased to go in one day and they had all gone on to new homes. Some locally make bags out of unwanted furnishing fabrics and I almost kept them to do likewise but released them so someone else could and that way the original shop got some income from the fabric
Having chucked out stuff in the past that I regretted I hang onto stuff I'm not sure about, and I plan to write down what I want to happen to various collections if my children don't want them and notes on stuff that has a value so try and sell it.
Maybe this doesn't help. If you are a true hoarder with narrow corridors through the rooms obviously
As for tools, some. Organizations take hand tools and send them overseas, power tools if they work or would work with a new battery are of use to someone, either a library of things or someone just starting up in life
An elderly widow I knew spent a long time disposing of her late husband's tools etc and was delighted that many of them went to someone just starting up. In his industry

Dianehillbilly1957 Thu 26-Jan-23 13:32:11

Definitely need to do something like this, hard to part with stuff.

Pearlsaminger Thu 26-Jan-23 13:11:08

What a great idea! I’m going to join in too. This is the nudge that’s inspired me so thank you Guesswhat smilethanks

Can’t always get to the charity shop but I’m happy to post on Olio or Freecycle, then if the items don’t go I’ll make the effort to drop them off. Much easier for people to come to me when I’m stuck at home.

Started today, flattened half a dozen big boxes and gave them to a neighbour whose friend is moving house. Got them out of the way and saved my recycling bin from getting filled up.

Clothing and shoes will probably go onto Vinted - which I’ve found to be very good once set up - or Facebook Marketplace which can be good if you can stand up to the hagglers who want everything for nothing!

lizzypopbottle Thu 26-Jan-23 13:10:07

One down, 29 days to go. Textile recycling bin next. There's one in the village.

lizzypopbottle Thu 26-Jan-23 13:07:37

Ha! This lot for the bin! Feeling virtuous 😎

sharon103 Thu 26-Jan-23 13:05:49

I've only just had a clear out. I've got things to sell on ebay and lots of stuff have been taken the the animal recue as they've got a charity shop.
I must sort the kitchen drawers out next. Goodness knows what I'll find in them. I've done the cupboards and thrown out of date tins away and things I don't use.
I must admit I'm a bit of a hoarder and keep things thinking that might come in handy one day.

MerylStreep Thu 26-Jan-23 13:03:17

Amalegra
I do that, but what’s worse I work in the charity shop and I probably put them on the rail 😱

Grandmagrewit Thu 26-Jan-23 13:02:01

Yes Pittcity I'm one of those who does have things in labelled boxes. I'm not necessarily very tidy but I know what I have, where most things are and can put my hands on something within 5 minutes of being asked for it. I would love to have made a living from being a "professional" organiser of people's possessions and helped them sort out their homes (like Dilly on the Stacey Solomon programme). That said, I do still hoard some items as I'm from the "might come in useful" generation - my garage is full of odd pieces of timber and I can't bring myself to throw away a plastic container. Why spend money buying more plastic items for storage and seed sowing?? I also can't throw away anything with family history connections and sometimes I think we get too obsessed with just chucking out old stuff that is part of our past. After all, if it's organised and you have room for it, then keep it. I'm glad I still have items that belonged to my great grandparents.

A last word on books - a rural village close to where I live, with no local library nearby, had the wonderful idea of using their decommissioned phone box as a drop off place for surplus books and magazines. Anyone can help themselves to whatever they want to read and either keep it or return it when read.

Good luck to all the declutterers.

Norah Thu 26-Jan-23 12:56:00

We selected table lamps that need new shades. Now, find new shades and bag the older ones. Lamps are difficult.

lizzypopbottle Thu 26-Jan-23 12:53:37

It's getting a start that defeats me. My junk room overfaces me every time I look in there. I will go right now with my one bag (12.55pm Thursday 26th Jan 2023) and report back! I'm on my way!

LovelyLady Thu 26-Jan-23 12:43:12

This is just the encouragement I need. Surely I can manage to fill a carrier bag every day

Nannan2 Thu 26-Jan-23 12:35:12

Im in too..yes cant always make time to get on here to report in but if not ill still do a bag.or if ive to miss a day (appts etc) then ill do 2 following day.smileill start today and ill freecycle a lovely dressing table i dont really use.

Lindyloud Thu 26-Jan-23 12:33:33

Think I’m up to date with physical clutter although always room for improvement! However it’s my online photos that really need sorting. Bought an app to delete ‘copies’ but still have 32,000 & over 800 mini videos.

Often asked by DC for a photo of when we ….. & it takes me ages to find some with different searches on dates/places
Etc.
So not how many ‘virtual photos’ are a bags worth? but if I’m allowed to join then I’m in!! Will start after lunch!

8rannyS Thu 26-Jan-23 12:17:55

If you need any encouragement to declutter you will find reading anything written on the subject by The Tidy Coo Rosie Barron a real inspiration . Trained by Marie Kondo but very practical and realistic

Su66 Thu 26-Jan-23 12:14:00

ZifFit buy books
You just have to scan the barcode and the offer price comes up 💐

Su66 Thu 26-Jan-23 12:11:06

Sawsage2. In regards to your comment about leaving it to others to sort when you are not here I have a book which I put things in that my family say they like or want along with their name so that when I am not here they have already been lumbered with said item(s). On a different note now retired I sew a lot if “things” and recently a daughter said to the other family members to be careful of what you admire as you could end up getting it for Christmas 😂😂.
Happy decluttering everyone. You will find it so rewarding. I do 💐 x

TiggyW Thu 26-Jan-23 12:10:07

I’d recommend Vinted for selling decent stuff; it’s better than eBay because you actually keep the full price of the item. The buyer pays the fees. Also it’s quicker as there’s no waiting for the auction to end.
I’ve found that many charity shops are full to bursting after Christmas! (A good reason to cut back on presents🙄!)

Nellietheelephant Thu 26-Jan-23 12:06:04

If you have lots of books you hate the idea of pulping, try the dreaded Amazon. You can SELL them online and it's very easy. You don't even have to take pictures, it's all on there. The boring bit comes when you get an order and you have to pack them up and send off. You can judge the price to ask by what others offer (some are for 1p and I don't know how they do that!) If anyone wants more details, please let me know.

Nicolenet Thu 26-Jan-23 11:56:56

Well done. I find it difficult to part with things. Especially now that everything is so expensive. So in case these things are needed again, I always find room in my cupboards or even the garage.

Scotgirlnick Thu 26-Jan-23 11:51:28

It is difficult sometimes to find places where they will take stuff.If you use Facebook you can advertise in a local group for things you want to give away or sell. There is also an app called olio where you can pass on food items, toiletries stuff