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30 bags in 30 days decluttering method

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MayBee70 Tue 24-Jan-23 00:04:53

Can I join in please? I really need help. Nearly fifty years in the same house. Have my children’s stuff here. My ex husbands, FIL’s etc. I still live in the family home and am the custodian of everything as they live in smaller houses. I’ve always been a hoarder/collector (can’t resist buying things from car boots or charity shops). Spent years buying things for my dream cottage but remain in a boring box of a house so my cottage stuff is stuck in cupboards. Kept all my children’s stuff forthe grandchildren to play with…some of which does interest them but some doesn’t. I try to throw things away but the thought of it going into landfill upsets me (eg old videos). I did give my daughter her old school books recently and the pictures she drew when she was little. It is now up to her if she throws them out. I’m trying to go through food that I stockpiled during the pandemic. Just put a lot of out of date food in the green bin (only things that can’t be used: I do ignore best before dates on most things). I’ve found a lovely fruit and vegetable shop that takes back egg cartons for their wormery and I can buy things using my reusable bags (throughout the pandemic we’ve been having Tesco deliveries and I’m horrified at the amount of packaging). They’ve just opened a new repair cafe nearby so I can take things to them to be fixed. If not I can throw them away ( I’ve hung onto them not knowing if they’re repairable). It’s given me an incentive. I’ve got wardrobes full of clothes that I don’t wear. Eg what do I do with M&S cotton knickers that are in perfect condition, many unworn but in a size I’ll never wear again? I keep thinking they’re good for polishing. Furniture upcycling projects that I’ve never got round to doing. Sorry to ramble on…just thinking out loud.

Doodledog Mon 23-Jan-23 23:48:21

Mollygo

I’m in too. Can I count today when I took clothes to the charity shop as day 1?

I think we should all have a (virtual) bag in reserve for if we’re too busy/lazy to do something every day. That way we won’t get disheartened if we fall a bit behind.

Guesswhat Mon 23-Jan-23 23:43:25

You’re all very welcome!

Mollygo - yes, definitely.

henetha - of course.

henetha Mon 23-Jan-23 23:36:42

I'll join in, but due to physical problems can't promise to do it every day. So can I take longer please?

Mollygo Mon 23-Jan-23 23:31:23

I’m in too. Can I count today when I took clothes to the charity shop as day 1?

Zoejory Mon 23-Jan-23 23:17:16

I tried once and ended up not getting rid of a thing. I hope you all have better luck than I did .

HeavenLeigh Mon 23-Jan-23 23:03:16

I’m in too

Nana3 Mon 23-Jan-23 23:01:08

I will join in and report back with my progress. There's 46 years of our clutter plus lots from my parents house to sort through.

Guesswhat Mon 23-Jan-23 22:42:29

Thanks for joining me.

I’m very bad at this decluttering lark too, Doodledog, but I’m hoping this new method will suit me.

Norah Mon 23-Jan-23 22:26:34

I'm in.

I began with charity shop donation of excess Christmas beautifuls, somebody will love more Christmas!

Doodledog Mon 23-Jan-23 22:22:53

Ok I’m in.

I really need a clear out, but I am very bad at this sort of thing. I’ll try to clear out an old sideboard that I want to put under the stairs. If I can at least sort out what I want to keep in it it will be a start. I’ll worry about Wednesday later - one day at a time grin

Lilypops Mon 23-Jan-23 22:19:50

Great idea Guesswhat. I need to declutter. Good Luck. I may just join in with you

Guesswhat Mon 23-Jan-23 22:14:03

Would anybody like to join me in this?

I’ve read about a method where you chuck out/donate one bag of clutter every day for 30 days. As an inveterate hoarder who wants to get on top of things at last, I’m going to go for it! (Only a carrier bag, mind. Not a big refuse sack.)

Tomorrow I’ll start with a bag of books to take to the charity shop. The day after, maybe some clothes. By recording my progress on here, I’m hoping to keep up the good work.

Wish me luck!