Week 14 of building....
Condolences 😳
I've never experienced that snobbery either, and we live in a terrace
. To me, the location is the important thing, and where we live has exactly what I want (apart from a sea view, but as we are miles from the sea it would take a natural disaster to achieve that). We are on the flat, near to amenities and transport, have gardens and a garage (the latter not always being available in older houses), plenty of space and we are very happy here.
We do hear neighbours' children in their garden, but unless a detached house has its own grounds that would also be the case.