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Future proofing the bathroom

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Doodledog Sun 31-Dec-23 17:39:27

My next house project is to revamp the bathroom. Currently we have a large cast iron bath, a freestanding shower and a washbasin in there, with a separate loo next door.

There is a large window at one side of the room, with the bath under it, and the door to the room is opposite. There is another largish window near the bathroom one in the separate loo space, and the door to that is similarly opposite. The two rooms together don't make a rectangle, as the loo is not as wide as the bathroom, so the door to that is set back from the door to the bathroom, if that makes sense. The space occupied by the loo has to allow for the door to open, which is basically lost space, so I did think about moving the shower to there and blocking off the door.

The main problem, apart from it all being a bit tatty, is that there isn't enough storage space. Oh, and it is the only bathroom in a family house, which is quite unusual nowadays.

My children say that now that there are just two of us living here we should knock the two rooms together (we have a downstairs loo), as this would create space and give more options. I can see the advantage of that, but I rather like being able to have my bath in an 'unpolluted' atmosphere, if you get my drift.

I am very much a bath person, and Mr D prefers showers. Ideally, I would like to keep the bath, but I have two arthritic knees, and realise that getting in and out is not going to get easier as I get older.

We have no plans to move, but who knows what life will bring, and the house is probably too big for one of us on their own.

The children also suggested getting a shower over the bath, but this seems to me the worst of both worlds. Yes, it will create more space, but if/when I can't get into the bath I won't be able to have a shower either.

So the question is, how should I proceed? Do I get another bath, knowing that it might not be a long-term possibility? Do I keep a separate loo, or knock them together? Do I make one big wet room, and get rid of the bath? Something different altogether? Oh, and is it worth thinking about getting the cast-iron bath re-enamelled? I'm not keen on getting disabled access things in yet, but nor do I want to spend a lot on something that might have to be replaced in a few years.

Has anyone made similar decisions lately? All bathroom-related thoughts are welcome, please?

TerriBull Mon 01-Jan-24 18:43:57

When we moved to this house, although the en suite wasn't particularly old, it had a convoluted design where the shower was a step up affair almost like a dais. Coupled with the previous owners dreadful grouting , we decided to rip the whole thing out and I was absolutely adamant that I wanted a completely flat shower cubicle. The bathroom fitters hummed and ha'd a bit but I got my way. That was and has been invaluable to me when I broke my arm recently. The bath in the main bathroom is rarely used.

SueDonim Mon 01-Jan-24 18:41:17

If you knocked through into the loo and lost that door you could fit a shower unit into the square area. Or put in a range of storage. That would free up space for the hand basin (or two!) with under unit storage.

I had a bath last night, the last of the year. Mostly I shower but I love a bath, I can really attend to my feet and skin without getting cold and soak away any aches and pains. I don’t do anything that makes me particularly grimy nowadays but even then, well, you soak an item that’s really dirty, you don’t just chuck a bucket of water over it and hope it’ll be clean.

Germanshepherdsmum Mon 01-Jan-24 18:27:31

I know exactly what I’m missing. Years ago I didn’t have a shower, only a bath. I would never, ever, again want to have a bath - only a shower. I just don’t understand why lying in rapidly cooling water which contains your own grime holds one iota of pleasure.

dustyangel Mon 01-Jan-24 18:23:55

I’d suggest that if you decide to get rid of the bath you think about having a bidet. It is so useful if for any reason you can’t get your feet or legs wet. It’s been a godsend at times for us since the builder automatically added one to our bathroom plans. Incidentally they are a joy to very small grandchildren. “Look a special little washbasin just for me!”

Gwyllt Mon 01-Jan-24 18:22:26

You don’t know what you are missing GSM
I hope you are not implying anything
On the other hand in a previous house there was a jacuzzi Apart from it being massive the tank not holding enough water to fill it My husband was quite excited but said it was like having a bath in a cement mixer

Germanshepherdsmum Mon 01-Jan-24 17:48:35

I have the Japanese attitude towards baths - shower first rather than wallow in your own grime. I don’t remember when I last had a bath - probably about twenty five years. Give me a shower every time. We inherited a jacuzzi in the en suite when we moved here - still as good as new, and will remain so.

Gwyllt Mon 01-Jan-24 17:33:14

Nothing to add really except that after having two new hips. I felt it such an achievement to be able to say I had a bath last night. It was fantastic
Got a shower room downstairs but it’s just not the same as a soak in the bath with some Epsom Salts

greenlady102 Mon 01-Jan-24 16:08:08

My feeling is that whoever buys my house when i sell will want to put in a new bathroom and can do what they like. While I own it I will have what I want and need. 15 years ago before DH died we put in a new kitchen based on the belief that we would be selling it and moving a year or two later. He died, I am unable to move for the foreseeable future and I HATE the kitchen. I am never doing anything to any house on the basis of expecting to move again.

nexus63 Mon 01-Jan-24 15:54:00

i was only 57 when i could not get in and out of the bath, i had a few falls and realised that as much as i loved my bath i did not want to have anymore falls, i stay in a H/A house so it was time to ask for a walk in shower, i have a seat and can sit as long as i like under the shower, it is not the same, but being on my own and risking a fall was not worth it. keep the loo where it is and have a look about getting some storage for under the sink or slimline drawers or large laundry type basket with lid for towels, i have a slim bookcase for all my prescribed shampoos, creams and shower gels (psoriasis), try sitting with some paper and mark out your bathroom with or without the bath and see what you could get in the space. have a look online about storage or whatever else you would like. good luck.

lixy Mon 01-Jan-24 15:44:42

Hot tub on the patio?

Just thinking outside the box (must be the mulled apple juice!)

Having just had the work done to install a second loo downstairs I second that keeping your existing loo in place is a good idea - it has cost us £1000 - £1300 to install a new drainage system across our front drive.

woodenspoon Mon 01-Jan-24 15:43:02

Calendargirl

^but best of all a big cupboard to put everything in^

In other words, an airing cupboard, which so many homes don’t seem to have now.

No calendargirl. Not an airing cupboard at all because I’ve already got one of those with the tank in it and space for bedding and towels. My new cupboard is floor to ceiling and holds overflow from my wardrobes, seasonal duvets at the top, shelves designed for bottles, loo rolls etc. it’s multi purpose and a god send. Also, small plastic crates with medication such as paracetamols all clearly labelled on the front. Heat pads, blood pressure monitor etc. all in this one big cupboard.

Germanshepherdsmum Mon 01-Jan-24 15:42:42

Yes, definitely a vanity unit under the basin if you don’t already have one. A pedestal basin is a storage opportunity lost! We have drawers under all our basins.

Pittcity Mon 01-Jan-24 15:35:27

I agree with GSM. Keeping the loo door would open up a lot of space for cupboards. Build the sink into a cupboard unit and have more storage at eye level.

I would also suggest going away for a few days while the work is done. You can be kept updated via photos and videos and nobody will get in anyones way.

Germanshepherdsmum Mon 01-Jan-24 14:59:13

That’s really helpful. I would suggest that the wall (or at least half of it if you still want a partition) between loo and bathroom be removed, and the door into the bathroom blocked up. A large walk-in shower could then be installed where the existing shower is, and extending along the wall in front of the blocked-off door. It would be best, I think, to leave the loo in situ because the foul drain and stench pipe will already be there and re-routing would be an expensive and disruptive job. This leaves you with your bath but gives you the benefit of a level-entry shower, which with my knees I find invaluable.

Doodledog Mon 01-Jan-24 14:42:57

There is a bedroom right next to the loo, and squaring off the bathroom and loo would impact on the entrance to that, so I don't want to change the basic dimensions.

Doodledog Mon 01-Jan-24 14:40:05

I am not an architect, and definitely not an artist grin, but this is a rough drawing. It is not to scale at all, but you can see the position of the doors and windows, as well as the plumbed in items.

Norah Mon 01-Jan-24 14:13:47

Perhaps you might take measures, sketch what exists? Many people have a very good eye for renovations but may not be able to understand your description to windows and openings.

Engineering a bathroom, with the correct measurements could be a doodle, for those inclined to mentally read spaces.

Franbern Mon 01-Jan-24 08:59:34

If people buying your house in the future have, or plan to have children, then they will want a bath for them. One of the best part of each day with small children is bath time!!!!

I am fortunate that my early 1980's 2-bed flat has a separate bathroom and an ensuite shower room, Had the bathroom completed refitted soon after I moved here, hopefully this year will update the en-suite.

See lots of discussions on kitchen, but few on bathrooms, etc. Have also found it much more difficult to get an idea of costs involved. I have plans for two different configerations and will need to get companies in the quote for both.

The separate loo which is very much an outdated idea now, always used to totally confuse any friends, etc. from USA, who would ask for the 'bathroom' meaning the loo.

Calendargirl Mon 01-Jan-24 07:29:49

but best of all a big cupboard to put everything in

In other words, an airing cupboard, which so many homes don’t seem to have now.

denbylover Mon 01-Jan-24 02:53:55

Perhaps you could have a walk-in shower, but yes climbing in and out of a shower over a bath could be difficult in time to come, but then so could getting in and out of a bath with your arthritis. Loos in bathrooms here are not the norm, yes there are some,but it’s not the norm. Most have a small hand basin in the loo for handwashing. Keep it separate if you can.

Auntieflo Sun 31-Dec-23 22:23:43

Doodledog, I am another watching with interest.
I love my bathroom. It was refurbished a couple of years before I was diagnosed with bone cancer, so we still have a bath, with shower over. At the moment, I can get into the bath, with the help of steps from OT. But I can see that soon it may not be doable.
We also have a separate loo, which we are both loathe to lose, even though we have one downstairs.

Trouble Sun 31-Dec-23 21:17:48

Our bathroom is too small for a bath and our house had been occupied by someone in a wheelchair and it was a wet room. Loved the fact of no step into a shower and haven't missed having a bath at all. It also had a grab handle which was brilliant for leg shaving!

We did have to replace the sink which was too low and the loo which was very high! Eventually replaced the wet room altogether and it is great. We didn't put another grab handle in, but could easily do so if we wanted.

My mum has a wetroom too. No way could she get in or out of a bath! That has a seat that can be folded down as well as grab handles everywhere.

woodenspoon Sun 31-Dec-23 21:09:59

We had a bathroom that we inherited with a weird shape bath, bidet, loo, shower with a corner door and a sink unit. No storage. It was very dated. All now ripped out and now a vanity unit, big walk in shower with a single glass screen, loo, but best of all a big cupboard to put everything in : towels, toiletries, loo rolls, duvet covers etc etc. best decision ever. I wanted a bath but found getting in and out very challenging when I tried them out in Wickes!

Fleurpepper Sun 31-Dec-23 20:47:24

A new initiative in France for next year, any one over 70, or over 65 if special needs- will be entitled to a free assessment of their house or flat, and large subsidy or even total cover, of any adaptations required, be it stairlift, ramps, replacing bath with walk-in shower, installing downstairs loo and shower, etc.

Brilliant, should happen here too.

TwinLolly Sun 31-Dec-23 20:24:28

We have a shower/bath combination only so are thinking re-doing the bathroom and having a separate walk-in shower.

I want to keep the bath as I love a bath in winter and soak for a good hour! (Luxury!)

So it looks like we will rip out the old bath/shower and tile the bathroom with non-slip tiles, build in a shower into one of the corners, and put in a new bath on the opposite side.
Fortunately there is enough room, just, without being too crowded, which includes a sink and toilet (which we will re-align to fit better).

Do whatever you think would be best for your circumstances Doodledog, and all the best! flowers