I’ve been without a WM, TD and DW for several weeks due to ongoing house repairs. I’m fortunate that my dd leaves a couple of miles away and I could use her WM but I didn’t want to abuse her generosity by doing my ‘summer’ washing of duvets, pillows etc in her machine. Luckily, the weather has been good enough to hang out most of the laundry to dry.
To me, doing the dishes by hand is a chore but I could live without a DW if needs be. It doesn’t take long and isn’t as physically strenuous as hand washing clothing and bed linen.
My mum always had some sort of WM. I remember she had a tub machine with an electric wringer on top, then had a twin tub for years. My late sister chose not to have a WM for many years, handing washing absolutely everything! Her first baby didn’t wear plastic pants over the towelling nappies to begin with so each change of nappy meant a clean set of clothes and pram/cot linen, too.
She used plastic pants on the second baby. 