DH and I did it, but it was 54 years ago. FIL was a small scale builder/decorator/plumber/carpenter.
He was the craftsman and we, plus MIL, were his labourers.
The only thing we subcontracted out was the plastering and electrics.
It took us 2.5 years, no holidays apart from Christmas day. We worked every day off, weekends etc,
I'm still living in the house.
As self builders, we didn't have the headache of finding a reliable builder, but we did have to deal with inefficient suppliers and the problem of site security, amongst other things.
I wish you every success. It will be hard work but worth it.
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