Allira
You're paying them a lot of money!
They should be polite and professional but obviously they are not doing their job properly and keeping you informed.
Should you be liaising with your solicitor at this stage?
I face to face interview estate agents ( and lawyers, tradesmen, nannies, cleaners, anybody paid direct by me)) to find out if we'll fit. I don't employ any one who revealed they are idiots , liars or conmen. Their business skills and ethics have been put to the test during these discussions and if they failed the test they don't get the job.
BEFORE the chosen appointee gets the job we've already negotiated their charges, percentages and fee (in writing) and agreed our respective roles.
Who does what and when.
EA's job is to produce the first draft of sales brochure/ web page; for our discussion and editing before release. Then they advertise the property (in agreed places) , field the responses, make viewing appts. I conduct all viewings myself and take notes on all viewers to discuss with agent when he provides their feedback.
My EA has nothing whatever to do with negotiating price, terms, dates, etc with prospective buyers. All offers must be made formally in writing, by their lawyer, to my lawyer. Once a sale is agreed. all negotiations are conducted between our lawyers.