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Is 85 too old to move?

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Nannakins Thu 24-Jul-25 09:28:22

I'm an housing association tenant in a complex for over 55s. Everything as been lovely, until recently. The association moved in someone with drug issues, because the person met the age criteria. The person as been reported to the landlord for anti social behaviour. Examples being; loud music all day, and night. Visitors to the tenant being unsociable to other tenants behaviours. Recently, on a daily basis the tenant has started having package deliveries, size ranging from a padded envelope to a takeaway bag size. Now some would say it could just be a takeaway delivery, 3 or 4 times a day. If so, I wish I had half that expenditure as a pensioner.
I'm quite active for my age, and rely on no one for assistance, I am now thinking maybe I should consider moving. It would have to be a private rental, as social housing options are very limited. I do like it in this little complex, but I feel this is the sign of things to come as property becomes empty (quite a number of my neighbours are in their 90s. If anyone as any advice I would appreciate it, thank you.

whyDelilahwhy Sat 26-Jul-25 16:38:21

Letter of complaint to the HA who should have a complaints procedure anyway, copies to Police, MP, Councillors, Environmental Health.
Citizens Advices will help you write the letter, they have templates.
The tenant is responsible for the behaviour of their visitors.
You are entitled to a quiet enjoyment of your tenancy.
HA in breach of Contract (Tenancy Agreement)
Keeping a diary is essential, take pics, if you open Video
on your phone you can record sound too
Good luck OP its hell I know, been there.

There is a site, online, curiously enough, called
Neighbours from Hell which you may find enlightening.

ExDancer Sat 26-Jul-25 18:54:41

Where have you gone Nannakins?
You've had a lot of sound advice, do you intend to take it?

Snowbelle Sat 26-Jul-25 22:01:34

Please report to the police if you think there is drug dealing in your neighbourhood - there is currently a national initiative to disrupt this activity (please ensure this is anonymous, use crimestoppers.uk.org)

Also, do not let age be a barrier, if you would like to move, then move to somewhere you will be happy 💐

butterandjam Sat 26-Jul-25 23:38:49

If you suspect the neighbour is dealing drugs from his rented property, you have a way to get him evicted, then you won't need to move. His landlord will get rid .

You can report this completely anonymously to

<https://crimestoppers-uk.org/give-information/forms/give-information-anonymously>

Crime stoppers forward it to police. There is absolutely no risk of the tip-off ever being linked back to you.

BlueBelle Sun 27-Jul-25 05:45:26

I think Nankins has moved

Lovetopaint037 Sun 27-Jul-25 11:35:18

If you move to private rental you will lose the security that HA offers. Private landlords can give you notice when they decide it suits them.

leeds22 Sun 27-Jul-25 12:08:07

My parents lived in a social housing flat, not an age specific one but they rarely had problems until Social Service moved in a 17 year old boy. Loud music, constant stream of young visitors, definite smell of pot in the stairwell, etc. Everyone complained to the HA and eventually he was moved out. So it is worth getting your neighbours to complain too and hopefully will prove much more disruptive to your life. Good luck.

Sarahr Sun 27-Jul-25 18:21:08

If the tenant is paying rent it is possible with patience, to get them moved. You need to contact either the council or police who can advise on keeping an incident diary and how to report issues. Even better if you can get other tenants to do the same.
I and lots of neighbours had issues with an unsociable neighbour a while back. She was moved after we all produced incident diaries and constantly reported issues. Don't feel you have to move as you could end up worse off.

M0nica Fri 01-Aug-25 08:20:44

if you move there is always the chance that the same thing will happen again in your new accommodation. I knew someone that that happened to - and they had a move arranged by the HA to another HA house.