Visitors, shoes on or off?

Mt61

Off, if you have light coloured carpets at least- I just say do you mind taking off your shoes.
Work people are murder for not taking off their shoes. I give them those blue plastic things to put over their shoes ha

I must say we have wooden flooring downstairs, the upstairs as they are new & light in colour, so yes shoes off for sure.

Off, if you have light coloured carpets at least- I just say do you mind taking off your shoes.
Work people are murder for not taking off their shoes. I give them those blue plastic things to put over their shoes ha

I found it strange at first when visiting friends and family in Europe, where they usually provide a basket with slippers in. We automatically remove our shoes now. Most people take theirs off if they visit us without being asked.
Shoes can still be dirty even if they don’t look it, with dog or cat poo or wee on pavements everywhere so don’t need to be caked in mud.
If someone does come in my house with shoes on I have to try not to look annoyed, but it is irritating. Carpet newish but is supposed to see us out.

Definitely shoes on here! We had two in wheelchairs and I never took the wheels off when they came in.

We've never bothered about what people wear on their feet but building works surround our tiny cottage periodically now and the carpets are shrouded in dust as well as the furniture despite dusting and resorting to a damp cloth in extremis.... The worst hazard is the gravel - 'chuckies' here in Scotland - which hurt shoeless feet badly. I tend to put slippers on at home for comfort myself....but would struggle to provide a selection of sizes in suitable slippers for visitors...to protect their feet....

I should add if people come in the side door and into the tiled kitchen then I wouldn’t expect them to remove shoes.

We would never ask visitors to remove their shoes. We have never gone in for expensive carpets but have always chosen hardy ones that can be easily cleaned. Our grandchildren always leave their shoes at the door because they have been brought up to do so but that is their choice not ours.

@Aveline I wasn’t trying to insult those who don’t ask people to remove their shoes, horses for courses.

We have doormats outside and inside the front door, so it's very rarely that mud or dirt comes in on people's shoes. I wouldn't dream of asking people to take their shoes off, but it seems to be common practice these days.

I'm in a social group which is predominantly older women who meet in one another's houses, and the logjam in hallways as numerous arthritic and wobbly people try to fasten shoelaces and bend down to pull on boots at the end of meetings has to be seen to be believed. It's not so bad if there is somewhere to sit, but even then it's not easy when people have dodgy knees, gammy legs and bunions.

I would take off muddy hiking boots though!

Agree with Aveline and our rugs are neither particularly expensive nor new.

I wouldn't dream of asking visitors to remove their shoes on arrival. We also have 'expensive Persian rugs' but also have vacuum cleaners. How rude to expect partygoers to stand around shoeless. I'd have left.

It never bothered me too much when we had small kids and a couple of dogs but in recent years my views have changed.

We had new carpet laid in the lounge and it is a light oatmeal shade and is wool and was very expensive. To be fair most of my friends always take their shoes off because they do the same with visitors to their homes.

We have had a steady stream of carers, physios, nurses, OTs etc since my husband’s stroke. All of that group ask whether they should remove shoes EXCEPT the care workers who say they are not allowed to. They are not allowed to wear those blue shoe covers either which might have helped. My husband used to cringe when they came in the winter months with wet, muddy boots. We asked one woman not to come back as she came with filthy hiking boots on.

I think there has been a thread about this before.

From what I remember, the conclusion was, it is a more usual thing to do if someone was not born in the Uk.

How was it cool and wet at the dinner party?
Were you asked to go barefoot in the garden??
That would be weird.
We ask visitors to take off their shoes because although we have wooden floors we have some expensive Persian carpets in places. Everyone obliges quite happily. And when we had workmen in we rolled up the carpets and put old sheets down over the floors so we didn’t expect them to take off their boots.
When house hunting a year ago we regularly were asked to take off our shoes when viewing a property especially when the weather outside was bad.
Most people ask at the door if they should remove footwear so we don’t really have to remind people very often.