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Youngerthanspringtime Sun 14-Sept-25 08:44:31

Just wondering how you approach general housework, or maybe you have a cleaning lady.
As someone coming up to a BIG birthday next year, I don't have a set routine. I do like my home to look nice but as I live on my own in a recently built bungalow its fairly easy to keep it clean and tidy.
If I'm having an off day I will just do the bare minimum and catch up another day.
My friends of similar age are varied in their approach, one of them has an old terraced house, quite spacious and has a routine of doing the upstairs one day a week and the downstairs another day, It gets polished to perfection, despite her gradual decline in health. They could afford a cleaning lady but she says her husband ''doesn't like getting people in to do jobs''. By the way she is always exhausted and hasn't got time to do her Blossom word game. (certainly wouldn't have time to go on Gransnet}
I think most of the women I know are like me and do a bit of cleaning when they feel up to it. (some never feel up to it but so what, life's too short in my opinion.)
Or maybe I'm wrong and you are all paragons of housewifely virtue!

TheWeirdoAgain60 Sun 14-Sept-25 08:51:51

I absolutely detest any sort of housework; it bores me into a coma, including window cleaning!

The second I rented my first flat at 18, 42 years ago, I took on a f/t cleaner, and I've had them every time I've moved to a new place.

I've had Tony and his husband, Martin, for about 10 years, and they always leave my flat immaculate!

And Paul cleans my external windows each month, leaving them gleaming!

karmalady Sun 14-Sept-25 08:53:37

Gosh no cleaner for me, 4 bed house and widowed. I like the pottering, do a bit most days and that keeps all the cleaning manageable. I like the exercise too, the going up and downstairs, the bending and stretching

Priorities for me are my allotment, my cycling and my crafting but cleaning a bit every day is very easy to slot into my lifestyle. I do basic cleaning and include my windows in that, I don`t over-polish and I can be a bit untidy when I bake or craft but so be it. I thoroughly enjoy my purposeful life

TheWeirdoAgain60 Sun 14-Sept-25 08:53:52

''paragons of housewifely virtue'' HA HA HA!

Thank heavens I've never been a wife or a housewife, I wouldn't know where to begin!

Witzend Sun 14-Sept-25 08:57:46

I do just enough to keep it looking more or less presentable - as long as you’re not actually looking for dust.

Somewhat more if guests are coming to stay.
I hate housework!

Casdon Sun 14-Sept-25 09:01:33

I am the opposite of housewifely virtue, so I do follow a routine first thing in the morning because I hate doing it, and I’d rather not have to think about mountains of housework that need doing. I stick to a list of set tasks, then do what I want to for the rest of the day.

Youngerthanspringtime Sun 14-Sept-25 09:21:58

Some good responses, Casdon I'm a bit like that, it does help if you can be bothered to get it out of the way and enjoy the rest of your day.

Cabbie21 Sun 14-Sept-25 09:25:48

My house looks clean and mostly tidy, but there are no pets, children or men to make it dirty.
Untidiness is ongoing sorting.
I don’t really have a routine for housework, but somehow if chores haven’t been done, they get done on Saturday morning- a relic of working days, though I did have a cleaner then.
My most hated job is window cleaning.

dogsmother Sun 14-Sept-25 09:29:57

I sort of make my bed every morning, I like it shaken out and turned neatly down to air. My major cleaning is done on Monday and the rest of the week is whatever required. I am not overly tidy at all in fact my family will probably say I’m a bit a cluttered/ hoarder.

pably15 Sun 14-Sept-25 09:42:04

I have a window cleaner once a month to clean the outsides, I hoover every second day, pollish maybe weekly, do the inside of the windows when I feel like it .the toilet gets cleaned every day.

Harris27 Sun 14-Sept-25 09:48:30

I do what I can when I can. As long as I’m hoovered and tidy most of the time that’s good enough for me!

Skydancer Sun 14-Sept-25 09:54:47

I just shut the doors on the bedrooms we don’t use. Out of sight is out of mind. When I see any dust anywhere I wipe it off. I iron something when I want to wear it. But I always make the bed every day.

Sago Sun 14-Sept-25 09:59:47

I’m sitting now drinking tea whilst Tracey my robo vacuum (named after a cleaner I had) does all the hard work!

I clean downstairs on a Wednesday, upstairs on a Thursday and tend to do a couple of tasks each day such as polish photo frames, change beds, clean windows.

The only task I hate is ironing, I am not very good at it!
I do however love putting all the laundered bedding away in the airing cupboard.

kittylester Sun 14-Sept-25 10:07:50

We have always had a cleaner and I'm not giving her up now.

JamesandJon33 Sun 14-Sept-25 10:09:53

It’s pretty reasonable. Clean and dust free, mostly. I’m a bit erratic about housework as it comes second or even third to other things. But if visitors are expected we have a full on , deep down , all over clean.

Youngerthanspringtime Sun 14-Sept-25 10:13:45

Love the idea of a robot vacuum cleaner!
I am the opposite of you Sago, I don't mind a bit ironing (especially in the winter, it warms me up!) but hate putting the stuff away.

LaCrepescule Sun 14-Sept-25 10:25:40

I’m houseproud but don’t like housework (who does.) I find the best way to keep on top of it is to have a set routine and keep the time to no more than 30 minutes. I have a day off for good behaviour on a Saturday.
I’m anal though. My mum was lax about housework but once dad retired he did it all (not cooking/laundry.) He wrote it all out on the wall calendar and I’m a chip off the old block.

LOUISA1523 Sun 14-Sept-25 10:32:22

My house is ways clean and tidy when I go to bed and wake up....no cleaner ...me and partner keep on top of it ourselves....tidy as we go ....clean kitchen and shower as we go...horough clean of bathroom once a week....floors mopped twice a week.....I only work part time tho ....if GDs come, they make a big mess with craft and drawing stuff and blankets and just get stuff put everywhere....its all left until they go ( whether there just come for a couple of hours or a couple of days) then we do a quick blitz to get it clean and tidy again ....I actually enjoy cleaning and tidying 🤷‍♀️

GrannyGravy13 Sun 14-Sept-25 10:36:26

I am in the same camp as kittylester I had a cleaner whilst working, and have one now.

Athrawes Sun 14-Sept-25 11:08:11

I try my best to keep our house clean but a little while later it's back to what it was before! Still, people always seem happy to come here which is good so I shouldn't moan

Mt61 Sun 14-Sept-25 11:41:47

In dribs & drabs, whatever I feel like doing.
If I do a chore it will be done thoroughly. But the days have gone, where I would be at it all day, on my day off.
We are decorating at the moment, all the furniture is piled into the conservatory, so sat here on GN, in what what feels like Steptoes yard 😂

RosieandherMaw Sun 14-Sept-25 11:46:42

I know I should just scroll on, but a discussion about housework ?

Really?
confusedconfused

Norah Sun 14-Sept-25 13:00:39

We've dogs - I hoover daily, make the bed, clean the kitchen whilst cooking, wash inside windows often and leave cleaning to our cleaners.

eddiecat78 Sun 14-Sept-25 13:03:12

Years ago some friends wanted to get married on a Tuesday as it was cheaper but were told "you can't do that, it's the day Mum does the ironing"

fancythat Sun 14-Sept-25 13:05:45

I do the work that needs doing until 10am.
After that, I do what I want of it, at a pace to suit me on that particular day.

It never occured to me that everyone does it different from each other!
Well, apart from those who have a cleaner.