My priorities have always been that I am clean, and my clothes. That food is prepared in a hygenic way, and the bathroom is cleaned. But as I am the only person here, such things as cleaning windows and hoovering, they only get done when I see the need and , or cant see through the windows! As for dusting it is bottom of the list for me.
But my days now, at this time of year, is firstly what the weather is like. Dry and decent, get the washing out or off to the shops while I can. But unfortunately, whatever I have planned or want to do is governed by what I can manage to do, and I have no choice but to manage what I can, when my back hurts too much to do much and the frustration levels rise. So I have to sort of have two lists, what I can do if it is a good day, and what is only possible with a struggle. Recently I have been given attendance allowance, so I do have an hour a week when someone comes, who thankfully can turn the mattress over and reach up to the cobwebs or whatever and change lights etc etc. I have had to admit I would really be stuck without the chance for someone to reach to the back of the cupboard or whatever.
I have always tried to cook something once that can provide me with two meals, either some of the original frozen for another day, or add curry to ordinary mince and have with rice kind of thing. So that is also something I try to do on good days, but also keep some things like fish or a frozen fish pie, when I see them, for a change and I no longer feel the time to make one from scratch is worth the effort for me.