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Replace existing dinner service or buy new?

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aprilrose Mon 06-Oct-25 13:27:38

I was just wondering what other people do about their crockery. Do you buy new or try to replenish what you have?

I had a dinner service I bought myself ( I was never given any wedding presents as we were all set up by the time we married, so its all self buy) when I had my first house/ moved in with husband. Its knocking 40 years or more old now. Its Arcopal by the way - tempered glass with a pattern. I have lost loads of it over the years - accidents, chipped occasionally and am now down to two dinner plates , two cereal bowls and a full compliment of side plates and cups and saucers + mugs and egg cups,sugar bowl creamer, charger and some serving bowls. etc.

My mum ( passd away now) also had a service but hers was Corelle ( Corningware). Again its in pieces- two dinner plates , some soup bowls etc.

I have looked a bit and the patterns I want seem a bit scarce and thus replacements are not the cheapest ( a set lof four plates , for example is around £20-25, second hand , good condition or even unused) but it was a nice pattern and nice service. I remember paying just that for a full arcopal dinner service in 1980

I have also looked at new dinner services and they seem rather plain and quite heavy. Corelle and Acopal are lightweight and dont chip easily or break as it happens, being pyrex /glass

I dont know whether to try and replace the lost items ( via e bay or anywhere I can get them second hand as the service is now discontinued or to scrap the lot and but new? I was just wondering what others did?

Mt61 Mon 06-Oct-25 15:52:31

Mine is all white, China. Replaced cereal bowls & added salad plates, buying white China ones from tkmaxx

eddiecat78 Mon 06-Oct-25 15:52:33

I'd buy second hand as most of the new stuff is made in China - even the big name stuff

Aveline Mon 06-Oct-25 16:25:00

I love china. Unfortunately, my wedding china Denby Gipsy Rose is still going strong nearly 50 years later. I treated myself to some Royal Copenhagen Blue Denmark a few years ago. They were extortionate (to me) but I decided I'm worth it. They give me pleasure every day.

RosieandherMaw Mon 06-Oct-25 17:06:19

Go to any half decent charity shop or auction room - they can’t give dinner services away!

karmalady Mon 06-Oct-25 17:20:15

For goodness sake, unless you are skint, treat yourself to some nice quality new pottery that you can enjoy each and every day

I started buying denby after I was widowed and it is so nice to see and to use. Gives me pleasure.

That arcopol or pyrex, I had some in the old days but it all went out, all the bits and pieces, very old fashioned. I replaced with a couple of better brands and now have only denby regency green

Chocolatelovinggran Mon 06-Oct-25 17:22:29

Aveline, my wedding present china was Pink Denmark. I love it still, fifty four years on, having added the odd replacement from charity shops.

Dylis Mon 06-Oct-25 17:40:15

Have you tried Ebay?
Many years ago I stayed in a beautiful holiday cottage where the owner had fitted it out with Portmerion in every shape or form possible.It must have cost an absolute fortune. I fell in love with it and when I got home was shocked to find how expensive it was. I eventually found several items on Ebay at a reasonable price and collected a set over a few weeks without breaking the bank
They still make me happy every time I put them on the table.

Usedtobeblonde Mon 06-Oct-25 17:55:41

I still have some Denby Green wheat, as old as the hills as well as the white with the green edge which name escapes me.
I have some Arabesque but that is a coffee set and some mugs, rather a nice shape.

Aldom Mon 06-Oct-25 18:01:51

I used to have the Arabesque coffee pot and those shapely mugs UTBB.

Humbertbear Mon 06-Oct-25 22:04:11

Just looked on EBay and suggest you have a look too, Aprilrose. Lots of dinner plates waiting for you to buy them.

J52 Tue 07-Oct-25 04:15:23

Usedtobeblonde

I still have some Denby Green wheat, as old as the hills as well as the white with the green edge which name escapes me.
I have some Arabesque but that is a coffee set and some mugs, rather a nice shape.

White with green edge is Greenwich. We have have it, enough for eight place settings in dinner, tea, tea pot, jugs and serving dishes. It’s at least 30 years old and survives the dish washer. I don’t think I’ll ever need to buy any more.

Salti Tue 07-Oct-25 11:17:33

I am clumsy. The last everyday dinner service that I bought in Dunelm is black and white polka dot. Since then I top up with anything else black and/or white that I come across. I have quite a mixture now, but at least it follows a colour scheme.

V3ra Tue 07-Oct-25 11:47:19

Salti your black and white mixture sounds like it works really well!

I bought our dinner service, with guidance from our daughter, for our 20th wedding anniversary: china, in 1997.
It's from the Churchill "Ports of Call" by Jeff Banks range, design name "Kabul."
The range was discontinued when the war in Afghanistan broke out.

Since then we've mainly lost some of the dinner plates and I've replaced them with plain white ones, from Morrisons, which look ok!

Allira Tue 07-Oct-25 12:06:45

Since a relative told me she disliked eating her dinner from a patterned plate, it made me think and I've tended to go for plain white china but must admit I'm getting rather bored with it now.

Allira Tue 07-Oct-25 12:15:39

When we first married, my mother felt sorry for us because no-one bought us a dinner service so she bought us a Johnson Brothers Snow White complete set and tea service too. It lasted for years but some pieces got broken and others faded in the dishwasher. The rest went to the charity shop. Now I see that just one cup and saucer is for sale on Etsy for £35 😲

twiglet77 Tue 07-Oct-25 12:15:55

I get replacements for my 1970s Wedgwood set from eBay.

mabon2 Tue 07-Oct-25 13:44:22

Ihada dinner service which I hadn't used in30 years it was a wedding gift,1962, I never liked it from the word go byt did use it. My friend's daughter has it now, she loves it as it's "vintage". (
My boys didn't want it)

Norah Tue 07-Oct-25 13:51:06

I have a fondness for all crockery. I mix all sorts of pieces at a meal. Seasonal dishes are particularly attractive, in my opinion.

Perhaps Ebay? I note lots of crockery offers on Ebay.

Bellocchild Tue 07-Oct-25 14:05:46

eBay is excellent for matching up out-of-production china. Round here, charity shops will not take dinner services any more - there's no market for them, or space in the shops.

Yoonimum Tue 07-Oct-25 14:12:24

I won't use chipped dinnerware and don't like mismatched unless it is seriously mismatched and creatively done. I don't believe in keeping things for best so we have a mid-price dinner service we use all the time. It's off white porcelain, very plain, but lovely quality from Maxwell Williams which is available from lots of places. When we were more skint we used M&S everyday dinner sets. I think it depends very much on your aesthetics and your budget. Nothing wrong with charity shop stuff if you like it. I often kitted out my home from them in the past and still use them for quality glassware. My gorgeous trifle bowl is a charity shop find.

Iam64 Tue 07-Oct-25 14:43:24

In my younger days I had portmerion and Denby. Teenagers washing up broke a lot. Wemoved onto ikea white crockery, cheap easily replaced. Not beautiful

Bennydian Tue 07-Oct-25 14:49:41

concepthousewares.co.uk
This site has Corelle products that are light weight.
Hope it helps.

sazz1 Tue 07-Oct-25 14:53:23

I buy all my China from charity shops. I can afford new but prefer to recycle. As long as its blue in colour it's OK or blue and white. It goes straight in the dishwasher same as all hotel, cafe or restaurant china.
I think you should list for sale the pieces you have and buy some more china with the money.

Mojack26 Tue 07-Oct-25 15:51:24

Get a new one!

Greciangirl Tue 07-Oct-25 16:12:33

All my crockery is mismatched.
Some are chipped, some not,

I really don’t care as I don’t entertain.
Does anyone nowadays have dinner parties?