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Has something you've changed in your home made a huge difference?

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AskAlice Sun 26-Oct-25 18:56:05

For the last 22 years, I have shivered and suffered in my freezing cold kitchen. When we moved in, there was no heating in there and no wall space for a radiator to be added. The room is around 18 feet long and 10 feet wide, with two external walls which we can't have insulated because the previous owners had the wiring dropped down between the cavity walls instead of being channeled into the internal wall. It would be very disruptive and expensive to remedy this problem.

This year, I finally put my foot down. I do nearly all the cooking (DH cooks about once a fortnight) and he didn't seem to see heating in the kitchen as a priority. His argument was that the hob and oven would eventually heat it, so there was no problem. What he didn't take into account was the fact that, while he usually cooks something that takes little preparation (bought frozen battered fish and frozen chips, re-heating portions of meals that I had batch-cooked etc.), I always cook from scratch with a lot of chopping, mixing, pre-frying and so on.

Last year, I cut myself quite badly when chopping veg as I was literally shivering and shaking. I finally snapped and said that unless there was some form of heating installed then he would be doing the majority of the cooking in future! Voila, I now have an electric plinth heater that warms the kitchen in five minutes so that I am no longer cooking in my coat! It took the installer about an hour to put in and has made such a difference!

Has anyone else made a small change that has made such a big difference?

WelshPoppy Mon 27-Oct-25 19:11:54

I had to retire from work due to ill health, Meniere's Disease which causes vertigo and vomiting. Hubby and I decided to use part of my pension lump sum to add a small extension to our house with a downstairs toilet. It was a godsend. We also plumbed a washing machine and tumble dryer, which gave us extra room in the kitchen. So glad we did it.

Tilly8 Mon 27-Oct-25 19:23:32

During lockdown we decided to put a new kitchen in and my wonderful husband, knowing I was struggling with a long term digestive issue, installed a downstairs toilet in the plans. Forever grateful.

InRainbows Mon 27-Oct-25 19:32:26

I've always been a very magnolia person. Did not even subscribe to the boring gray trend. Then I just decided one day I wanted bright colours, bright, deep, rich.

It has done wonders for me. I'm in love with my home again. I don't decorate for visitors comfort or appearances any more and use the walls to express myself.

win Mon 27-Oct-25 19:55:47

Whitewavemark2

The best thing we ever did was to build a conservatory, we sit in the sun surrounded by plants when it is a chilly day and thrive in light levels that you can’t get in the house.

In fact most of our time is spent here.

All I could afford originally was a 2 bedroom semi bungalow, first job was to have an extension with an en suite and a conservatory put on the back which I also live in all year round. The second job was an extension upstairs which has doubled the size to the house. I now have a reasonable bungalow and people are always surprised it has an upstairs. I love my house now.

singingnutty Mon 27-Oct-25 20:09:13

A small thing we did which has been very helpful was to replace the up and over garage door with one which rolls up and works by a switch in the garage. Even DH was finding it difficult to lift the original door. However, the best thing has been putting an extension across the back of the house by incorporating the kitchen, an outside paved area and the space where the conservatory was.

Dollshouse Mon 27-Oct-25 20:19:34

We have refreshed lots of our home since retirement. I usually have to persuade my husband that my ideas are worth the effort. Solar panels, batteries and electric car were the best package we completed and the panels and batteries have paid for themselves in 4 years. Our 8 legged provider has great tariffs to maximize the benefits.

We swapped the sides of the kitchen so we now have bifold doors and can sit at the table and enjoy the garden.

A reorganisation of the dining room, sitting room and conservatory made a major difference. We moved the wall and gained a bigger dining room for family get togethers, put in a new door and raised the floor level and a wider opening in the conservatory to join it to the sitting room. We also put floor length windows and a well insulated roof with roof windows in the conservatory so can see the garden from our sofa.

Changing a dangerous 1960s open tread teak staircase and dark parquet floor for light oak made coming through the front door a real pleasure.

Being brave with floorplans can really change the dynamics of a house but I think we have finished now.

My husband once took a trekking group away for a month and while he was away I moved our bedroom wall to give us a better master bedroom. He would have said it wasn't worth it but was amazed by the difference it made so he was glad I did it and he avoided the hassle and mess.

Thank you all for this interesting thread. As we age our homes become more important so sharing ideas for improvement are very helpful. A good handrail in the shower, the safety of a camera doorbell and giving up the landline have all kept us moving with the times and taking wise precautions for our safety.

Lahlah65 Mon 27-Oct-25 21:30:09

I had the tall glass doors in one on my kitchen cupboards replaced with ‘larder style’ solid doors, with racks inside for condiments, spices etc.

All the old-fashioned glasses that used to be on show but were never used are packed away and I have easy access to ingredients I use frequently when I’m cooking. And more and better storage for tins and baking ingredients.

The new doors are mdf and the plan is to paint the whole unit in contrast to the existing wooden units. I changed the all the cabinet doors handles too. Our 20 year old kitchen is now more functional and looking quite up-to-date - for around £1,500! (And put the old, solid wood doors on Freegle, and someone was very pleased to take them.)

WithNobsOnIt Mon 27-Oct-25 21:33:23

That"s men for you!

The have the word on reality.

Only their experiences matters and thenit is laid down as a god given truth.

4allweknow Mon 27-Oct-25 21:36:01

The house had a living room with door from hall. Dining room also door from hall. Kitchen adjacent to dining room. Knocked door and wall into dining room down basically making a kitchen /diner. Added door at end of hall to separate kitchen/ diner from hallway. More inclusive but sitting room still separate for peace and quiet.

GolferGrandma Mon 27-Oct-25 21:56:11

My wide kitchen window, which faces West, had vertical blinds and both had to be fully pulled together and tilted to save glare from bright sunlight. Moaned about this for years then saw Granddaughter’s bedroom blinds which drop or fold up without cords (from a famous Swedish brand). Replaced vertical with two of these and problem solved.

mrsmeldrew Tue 28-Oct-25 08:49:13

Sorry to hijack this thread. Just a quick question. We are planning to replace our pine internal doors with oak doors. We have a dilemma regarding the door frames there are 11 of them. Do we ask a joiner to remove and replace with oak frames? I imagine this will be very expensive. Or do we re-stain them oak? Or paint them white?

We have oak skirting and not planning to paint those as they look nice.

CariadAgain Tue 28-Oct-25 09:16:26

AskAlice

It's interesting to hear what things you have had done that have enhanced the enjoyment of your properties and lives.

We've also just had our kitchen made over (doors, worktops, sink and integrated recycling bin) which cost quite a lot but nowhere near as much as a new kitchen. With that AND the new plinth heater, I'm regaining my love of cooking at a rapid rate!

One other tiny thing that has made such a difference was getting the back door from kitchen to garden fixed. The catch never worked properly, but a nice man who was replacing a pane of glass for us in the double glazing took one look and fixed it properly in minutes. We've had several door specialists have a look at it in the past, but they just bodged it with bigger screws in different places and it was still not shutting properly. The joy of just pulling it to and not having to yank the handle up fiercely every time is beyond words! Little things, but they mean a lot...

I can resonate with comment re the door. When I bought this house it still had the original wood door on what I call the boiler room. It could be opened and shut - but not by me. I thought "fat lot of good if a woman can't use it" - so I had it replaced with a upvc one - which anyone can easily use.

The front and back doors were upvc anyway - but "old woman style" and not that great condition. So I replaced the front door with a composite one and one can't see someone is standing behind it now (ie me) when coming up to it. Got told the back door couldnt be replaced with composite - am not too sure I believe them in the event! But I had that replaced with another upvc one (in a modern style this time) and the top glass in it is a large window (ie so I've got a window I can open in my kitchen at last).

CariadAgain Tue 28-Oct-25 09:22:50

A very minor little thing - but it gets very windy sometimes where I am in the country now. Cue for a recent particularly bad gale did for my tv aerial and it broke and stopped working. When I had it replaced I took account of a suggestion I was given by someone here and told the guy to put the new one inside my loft and have a booster thingie with it. Duly did so - and at least I don't have to worry that future gales might get a traditional "on the roof" type one and there might be the risk of it crashing through the roof.

kittylester Tue 28-Oct-25 09:39:49

Actually, the very best thing we did was to buy this house, near the middle of a large, friendly village but not far from our local University town. Everything we have done to the house is icing on the cake.

TerriBull Tue 28-Oct-25 10:09:04

When we bought this house 4 plus years ago, we thought perfect! won't have to spend any money on it, but inevitably we did. nitpickers us there's always something! Firstly, we replaced the decking which had seen better days with paving stones in slightly different hues. There weren't any doors exiting the kitchen and dining room, I think because previous owners had young children and that suited them so we put some nice internal doors in with glass panels. Away with the greys, we had it repainted in some more vibrant colours. Then we did the en suite shower room, because the shower was a convoluted affair with a curved screen and a raised shower tray, oh and previous owner had repaired some grouting which looked crap didn't have a very good aesthetic. I like my showers to be completely flat on the ground with a straight screen that doesn't have to be opened rather than a door affair. We also redid the utility because they'd obviously put the old kitchen units in there when they refitted the kitchen, they were dark brown, all rather and dingy, now they're white. Now OH is talking about doing the main bathroom, nothing wrong with it really, it's him not me!, the house is like a scab he can't stop picking at shock

henetha Tue 28-Oct-25 10:29:59

Thank you Allira and CariadAgain. I'm grateful for your comments. I certainly like the idea of panels rather than tiles, one problem being that there are already tiles around the adjacent wash basin, patterned ones from years ago. The chance of finding that pattern is non existent, I think.
Larger plain panels would look better.
On the other hand, maybe paint is the easier option, providing of course that I can find a yellow paint to match the existing paintwork.
I did go to a d.i.y shop yesterday and looked at the millions of tiles and paint etc. I left totally unable to decide. But I will get there eventually. smile

CariadAgain Tue 28-Oct-25 10:38:21

Maybe - if the room is substantially painted anyway - you could choose a colour in the same sort of colour spectrum as that yellow and do something like colourwashing on that one wall and leave the rest as is (provided it doesn't "need" painting per se) and give it time to settle in your mind to see what you think of it. At that point - either leave as is or repaint the whole bathroom. A typical small bathroom doesn't take much time to have a decorator repaint (how can you tell I thought "Blow it" and just had a decorator do all the decorating in my current house?). Can't recall just how long it took to repaint the little bathroom my house has - but would think it was probably coat 1 on day 1 and coat 2 on day 2 sorta timing....

henetha Tue 28-Oct-25 10:51:11

Yes, CariadAGain, that is probably the best plan I think.
I've done my own decorating for years now and it was me who painted the walls yellow. I'm not so fit now, but it's only a tiny room so I might give it a go. Anyway, no-one but myself ever uses that little room as I do have a proper big bathroom with a toilet.
I can't leave as it is though, it would offend my eyes, so I think paint/colourwashing is the easiest idea. Cheers. smile

Allira Tue 28-Oct-25 11:02:54

henetha

Thank you Allira and CariadAgain. I'm grateful for your comments. I certainly like the idea of panels rather than tiles, one problem being that there are already tiles around the adjacent wash basin, patterned ones from years ago. The chance of finding that pattern is non existent, I think.
Larger plain panels would look better.
On the other hand, maybe paint is the easier option, providing of course that I can find a yellow paint to match the existing paintwork.
I did go to a d.i.y shop yesterday and looked at the millions of tiles and paint etc. I left totally unable to decide. But I will get there eventually. smile

The panels in our new kitchen are alloy, but you can buy ones for bathrooms in pvc I think.

They are easy to clean, much easier than paint.

mabon2 Tue 28-Oct-25 13:17:16

Yes indeed we had a shower installed in the down stairs small bathroom, because we all needed to be out of the house fairly early in the morning and two of the boys were keen fishers, thy could go straight in there to have their shower after fishing trips.

AN41 Tue 28-Oct-25 14:30:21

henetha

Not sure this counts, but I've just had a new toilet and it gave me the chance to give it a good clean back there. Now that the new toilet is installed it has left me with a problem though. The new cistern is totally a different shape from the old one, so I have to find a way to make that wall look decent. So, paint, tiles, whatever? Help!
This is so interesting, isn't it... not grin

I'm no expert Henetha, but it depends on what the existing. resulting surface is like.
You might get away with sanding it and painting that wall with two coats, but if it has left you with two uneven surfaces and/or jaggy edges then calling in a plasterer would be best.

Maybe get quotes online? Unless they live nearby they would no doubt ask you to send a picture to save them time and petrol and save you money.

AN41 Tue 28-Oct-25 14:40:55

Actually, those panels sound good! smile

VerbenaGirl Tue 28-Oct-25 20:32:06

A big UV fly catcher, like they have in commercial kitchens. So effective at removing flies from the house in summer and also a great night light in the kitchen. A bit of a disco feel!

henetha Fri 31-Oct-25 10:54:28

Thank you Allira and AN41. In my kitchen I have actually got some tiling things that aren't ceramic but are some modern composite plastic material. It looks good and has been there since I applied it about 15 years ago.
But I had a sudden impulse yesterday and am now the proud owner of a pot of yellow paint.
I do however, need to continue to improve the wall surface, hopefully myself, but if necessary it's an idea to get some quotes for plastering. It's only a small area so should be reasonable.

NotSpaghetti Fri 31-Oct-25 11:07:47

Lots of these seem to me to be big and expensive changes.

One small thing I feel is a great improvement is getting a new kettle when the old one is broken and not repairable...
I remember the joy of that! And teas taste better when the water isn't boiled in a pan!