When I was five we moved from an isolated farm cottage with no electricity or bathroom to a three bedroom, modern for its time, semi with both electricity and indoor bathroom . Still part of a farm it was on the edge of an East London town.
I don’t think my parents noticed the cold for the first winter, they were so pleased with their new (with an all important rent book for security) home.
No heating upstairs made for very cold bedrooms and the beautiful frost patterns on draughty metal framed windows. So much condensation too to be mopped when there was no ice. There was a stove with a back boiler in the kitchen and an open fire in the living room which was lit most evenings. My bed had many blankets and a huge, thick, heavy eiderdown which kept me warm at night. Morning washing was rudimentary, I dressed in the kitchen, clothes were left there overnight, my school shoes warm next to the stove.
As time went on the farm became a factory site. My dad had to change and sometimes worked night shifts. On cold nights my mum and I slept on a bed settee which was usually the province of visitors in the living room, the fire was kept alight, it was bliss. I remember being cold but not usually miserable. Everyone we knew was the same.
The worst time was the cold from winter freezing fog, the buses stopped, school stayed open so I walked the three miles with a friend. It was cold, miserable and scary, sometimes we struggled to know where we were, when he could my dad came to meet us,
My dad hated working inside. When he was offered more farm work we moved in 1968 to another, quite large, farm cottage., still no central heating but by then there were electric heaters in the bedrooms. It all felt so much better.
When first married we lived in a tiny terrace, an outside toilet, no bath and just one open fire. It was fine, we were happy there and sad to leave when we were re-housed in a flat in a tower block with both a bathroom and heating. In 1970 we moved areas, my parents too, and had new build council houses with blown air central heating. It seemed wonderful.
This thread has made me think about expectations It was enough to have a home. We needed or indeed wanted little. I am grateful for the well insulated warm home I share with Mr C today while thinking we both expect and have come to rely on such a lot more now.