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how would you! divide money btween 2 DD 1 GS

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bikergran Sun 01-Sept-13 21:31:16

If you had..lets say £10,000 2 DDs (one 30 one 37) 1 Gs (age 7) yrs.......
how would you divide it
would you consider the DD with GS to maybe have £4,000 and GS £1,000 and other DD (no children ) the full £5,000 or would you dived it........sort of both DDs say £4,500 each and the rest to GS?

j08 Sun 01-Sept-13 21:45:44

I'd put a good amount into something like the Kids' Fixed Savings account here

Then give to the DDs however much you think they will use sensibly.

j08 Sun 01-Sept-13 21:47:02

I treat grandsons differently to the kids. You're saving for their future.

hummingbird Sun 01-Sept-13 21:47:03

I'd give some to the GS, then share the remainder equally. It's what Mr H and I have done in our will!

bikergran Sun 01-Sept-13 21:56:33

aha yes sensible answers....I was trying to get my head round...do I give more to DD who has no children//but yes can see point of giving GS some then! sharing..out between DD s lol not that I have!! £10,000 but you never know ..one day!! smile

Elegran Sun 01-Sept-13 22:36:18

You can give £3,000 to each person without paying tax, so you could start with that, then worry about the other £1,000. Perhaps that to the one without children?

Elegran Sun 01-Sept-13 22:38:44

Or wait until the next tax year for the last £1,000, and then you will have whatever tax you did not pay on the £9,000 to add to it. Sorry, that still leaves the decision who to give it to.

Jendurham Mon 02-Sept-13 00:17:05

That's wrong, I think.
Each person can give away £3000 taxfree in each tax year.

Elegran Mon 02-Sept-13 07:15:08

You are right, Jendurham it is only £3,000 total. There are other ways you can give money away, too, which would be worth looking at.

petallus Mon 02-Sept-13 08:17:34

I always thought the 3000 was an inheritance tax limit, not an income tax one.

bluebell Mon 02-Sept-13 08:30:35

Yes pet you are right - the £3000 doesn't count towards the overall IT limit. You can if course give away as much as you want over £3000 but that will count for IT purposes if you don't survive for 7 years afterwards.

Elegran Mon 02-Sept-13 09:15:39

So how come I can claim £1,000 gift per person up to £3,000 in a tax year on my tax return?

Stansgran Mon 02-Sept-13 09:37:19

Also if you haven't given any in the previous year you can double it. I'm sure it's £3500 now so you could give £7000to DD with child and remainder to the other and still not cause them tax problems.

bluebell Mon 02-Sept-13 09:45:59

Elegran - no idea but it must be to keep a record for IT purposes - it's not for income tax reasons

bluebell Mon 02-Sept-13 09:51:33

Still £3000

Movedalot Mon 02-Sept-13 10:32:03

I think you should do what you like! Don't be influenced by others, your circumstances and those of our DDs are different to all of ours.

Elegran Mon 02-Sept-13 16:52:55

Here is a page about gifts and tax. You are right, it is inheritance tax which is not due on the up to £3,000 a year, but there are other ramifications to giving money to your family too.

j08 Mon 02-Sept-13 17:00:38

CD reckons we should give them an amount each month out of income, as that would be exempt.

No way Jose! #keeping it. #lunches

j08 Mon 02-Sept-13 17:01:31

Not CD. DS. hmm #fire

j08 Mon 02-Sept-13 17:02:42

#sodding fire actually

petallus Mon 02-Sept-13 17:44:04

j08 are you ever going to get to grips with your 'sodding fire'?

I ask in a spirit of innocent enquiry!

petallus Mon 02-Sept-13 17:44:47

smile

Ana Mon 02-Sept-13 17:55:07

I thought you'd turned predictive text off, jingle hmm

MargaretX Mon 02-Sept-13 18:53:30

50 -50. both daughters get the same. Any other solution will cause bad feelings after your death. Your GS will get the money from his mother eventually. What if other GCs follow and they have not been provided for?

petallus Mon 02-Sept-13 19:24:58

One of my daughters has four children, the other daughter none. I intend to give a certain amount to each of the grandchildren and then divide the rest between daughters.

It is possible to provide for unborn grandchildren in a will by the way.