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Paying for Nursing Home

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glammanana Sun 09-Feb-14 19:37:25

My friend turned up to-day distraught that she may be forced to sell the family home she shared with her mother would have to be sold we have said she needs legal advice but she is convinced the information she has is correct,which way can she go now is Age UK the best for her.

Nelliemoser Sun 09-Feb-14 19:51:58

It used to be that it depended on how old your friend (or any resident) son or daughter is.

Soutra Sun 09-Feb-14 20:09:21

There may be GNetters who.have had practical experience of this?

FlicketyB Sun 09-Feb-14 20:14:53

Without a doubt Age UK. In the meanwhile go online to their site. They have a heap of really useful fact sheets.

Remember that Social Services will often encourage people like your friend to think that the house must be sold even if it isn't true, in order to save having to pay for your friend's mother's care.

Soutra Sun 09-Feb-14 21:12:09

If your friend feels she lacks the confidence to tackle SS by herself there are people who will advise and accompany to meetings.

Ariadne Sun 09-Feb-14 21:40:02

I am sure that you will find the help you are looking for here, glamma. I do hope so.

glammanana Sun 09-Feb-14 22:09:10

Thanks Ariadne

ninathenana Sun 09-Feb-14 22:42:25

If your friend is over 50, lives in the house and it is her only home she will not be forced to sell.

durhamjen Sun 09-Feb-14 22:55:36

If you click on the legal and money heading, there is lots of information there, Glamma.

janeadailey Tue 11-Feb-14 09:16:32

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whenim64 Tue 11-Feb-14 09:47:01

Back again, Frank?

Soutra Tue 11-Feb-14 09:56:23

Yawn - some people never give up do they?

Riverwalk Tue 11-Feb-14 09:59:57

Nice try 'jane'! grin

dogsdinner Tue 11-Feb-14 13:43:05

is your friends name on the deeds? She must get legal advice before she is made to do anything. Awful situation for her.