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How can you help your heirs

(9 Posts)
Eiko Wed 13-Jul-16 10:18:27

Just logged onto this site to take a look after reading the posts...like most people I have a list but prefer it to be all in one place. The Share and Forget site is very comprehensive covering things I hadnt even considered!

Mentioned it to my kids, they were like 'welcome to the 21st Century Gran!!' why have lists when we have Iphones.

Felt so old!

nlightened Tue 12-Jul-16 16:54:54

Hi Nonnie
I had a spreadsheet too, which was fine I thought until the laptop decided to crash and all data was lost. My fault for no back-up.

Newquay Tue 12-Jul-16 16:49:07

Yes Nonnie I'm the same. Once a year, or thereabouts, I update my list.
Everything necessary is in one folder showing where everything is together with Wills.
When we go away we leave the folder out on a dining room chair away from the window and DDs know this.
I suppose it will be Sod's law that the one time we DON'T leave it out they'll need it! But it's only in the writing desk.

Nonnie Tue 12-Jul-16 16:26:10

I have a spreadsheet of where everything financial is and the filing system if straightforward. The spreadsheet shows what kind of account it is ie ISA, Easy Access, Fixed term. I have told them all about it and also left a note with the wills. I update it regularly because I am financially minded and have asked DH to do the same with all the insureance.

Sue02 Tue 12-Jul-16 15:40:19

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Sue02 Tue 12-Jul-16 15:30:24

What an excellent idea, when my mother died, I was at a loss as to where all her papers were and where to start. I will certainly be looking into this for all our information to be held in one safe place to assist our children at a difficult time.

Thingmajig Tue 12-Jul-16 14:00:00

This is excellent and I will be getting the husband to look at it ... I dread him popping his clogs (not that I'm expecting it any time soon I hasten to add!!!) and being left to find all his myriad of bank accounts!

Mumsy Tue 12-Jul-16 13:35:44

wish I knew about that site when my husband died! I had a nightmare sorting stuff out and mainly googled and was led to no end of different sites, whereas this site has all the info in one place.

thanks for sharing nlightened.

nlightened Tue 12-Jul-16 10:43:50

A friend recently lost his mother, and went through the process of trying to sort out her affairs, with little information to help him.

He had signed up to a site to assist with this sort of thing - shareandforget.com but had not thought to suggest to his mother that it would be useful to understand her financial affairs. After all, it isn’t an easy subject to bring up.

He has now introduced me to the site and I can see the benefit of what it has to offer. It doesn’t want usernames and passwords, but it acts as a reference point for heirs to help them when the time comes.

Has anyone else used anything similar?