I think first there needs to be a clear published definition about what is social care and what is medical care. There seems to be no clear definition.
This includes a clear definition, with examples of what level of medical need will qualify for NHS continuing care and what will not. Currently the NHS and Social Services keep tossing this from one to another like a hot potato to the utter confusion of family members trying to sort everything out.
Once that is sorted I think everyone should pay for their own care to the extent of their assets, including their house. I have no truck with the arguments about inheritance, Of course, like most people, I would like to leave an inheritance to my children, but if my care needs make that impossible then too bad.
The reason I think this is because of who would be otherwise paying for our care. Even when we bought houses, there were many people who could not afford to do so. By definition if you bought a house you were already working your way up the income scale. On the whole, children from owner occupied families, lived in better areas, went to better schools, got a better education, better jobs and had a good start in life compared with their non-house-owning compatriots. Now when their parents die they hope to inherit a large sum of money.
It is sheer selfishness to demand that all those less fortunate than themselves should pay, through their taxation, for the care of all those better off older people so that, on the whole, their better off children can add to their advantages by inheriting a large lump sum.
pat6633, your argument is very shallow. Home owning is a very pleasant way of life with freedom to do what you like within your home and the opportunity to move house as and when you want to. What is more, through schemes like equity release, the capital you have built up can be released to help fund a comfortable retirement. Paying for your own care means that you can exercise choice about the quality and location of any care home you go into. If you depend on Social Services, and many people have to, you have little or no control over which home you are placed in or the quality of the care
kittylester I absolutely agree that one's family should not be expected to contribute to their parents care, beyond the loss of an inheritance