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Stupidly shoplifted and got caught

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cheryl1967 Fri 19-Jan-18 18:49:38

Like the subject says I was caught shoplifting this morning and I am now so ashamed, no excuse as I shouldnt have done it under any circumstances.

Worried now I could end up losing my job if my employers find out.

Wondered if anyone has words of advice or even knows someone who has been in this situation?

OldMeg Fri 19-Jan-18 20:12:34

I don’t know if legal advice is going to help. You were caught red-handed (or rather footed) and haven’t a leg to stand on. Any lawyer will simply tell you to plead guilty and hope you get away with a caution, which is likely if this is the first time.

If you were arrested you would have been told you had a legal right to have a lawyer present. Did you waive that right? And have you been formally charged?

Re your job, I’d say that very much depends as you are in a position of trust with access to elderly residents.

cheryl1967 Fri 19-Jan-18 20:21:33

Yes I admitted in a previous post this is the second time I have and only time I was caught, understand why anyone would think it is worrying, when I said I had previous offence it was driving related which I know could work against me.

cheryl1967 Fri 19-Jan-18 20:23:23

It was mentioned at the time of my arrest about my legal rights, though as I was caught I thought it may have been a waste of time so said no.

And yes I have been formally charged.

cheryl1967 Fri 19-Jan-18 20:26:13

I also am aware this could potentially show on any future checks relating to my job.

Cherrytree59 Fri 19-Jan-18 20:34:47

Some rest is needed tonight.
Tomorrow an appointment with CAB.
An appointment with GP.
It maybe that you require help with the shoplifting,
If as you say it us out of character.

Eglantine21 Fri 19-Jan-18 20:39:18

Not potentially, it will show as you will have an Enhanced Check because of the nature of your work. And not just future if your employers do update checks. The update checks only take minutes and were a regular routine for us.
Was it worth it?

cheryl1967 Fri 19-Jan-18 20:42:03

I know some rest is needed though to be honest doubt I will get much sleep.

Scary day as when I was taken to the station I had my details etc taken. and was made to understand the reasons why I was there.

They then went through a set of health questions about alcohol, drugs, health.

I was then given a pat down and had my property removed including my footwear after being fingerprinted/photographed and Dna swab taken and taken to a cell for hours before questioning.

cheryl1967 Fri 19-Jan-18 20:43:36

Was what worth it Eglantine21?

MawBroon Fri 19-Jan-18 20:47:40

I have read that the police won’t prosecute for under £200 worth of goods. Must have been expensive boots?

cheryl1967 Fri 19-Jan-18 20:50:52

They were £250 the Boots

MawBroon Fri 19-Jan-18 20:51:31

Blimey.

MawBroon Fri 19-Jan-18 20:54:02

You went into a changing room to try them on? Isn’t that a bit unusual for boots or shoes? After asking for the left one I mean. Someone must have been suspicious? confused

cheryl1967 Fri 19-Jan-18 20:56:13

Yes looking back I know it would have seemed suspicious, the woman did go away though.

Eglantine21 Fri 19-Jan-18 21:03:40

Deciding to take the boots Cheryl. Now you realise the consequences.

Please, please make the legal advice your priority.

Grannyben Fri 19-Jan-18 21:08:25

I am so sorry and I really don't wish to be mean but I think you just need to accept whatever punishment is coming your way. I do appreciate you have been struggling financially but you didn't take a loaf of bread because you were hungry. If you had holes in your shoes, I could have maybe seen why you would attempt to take a £15 pair from primark but no, it was a £250 pair from debenhams. The other week I really wanted a danish pastry for 89p but I couldn't have it because I didn't have enough money. It makes me angry

cheryl1967 Fri 19-Jan-18 21:09:40

Yes it was a terrible idea, dont know what came over me.

It might be a good idea for me to get legal advice.

cheryl1967 Fri 19-Jan-18 21:12:16

I do have holes in my work shoes I had on last night, not trying to be funny in the slightest or make an excuse.

The Boots would have been ideal for all the snow we are getting at present though should never have contemplated it.

Im a horrible person I know.

MawBroon Fri 19-Jan-18 21:15:57

Nobody is saying that, but £250 boots? Being hard up is not going to be much of a defence when we are talking about a luxury article. sad

Grannyben Fri 19-Jan-18 21:20:59

But you did contemplate it and on more than one occasion. I dare say you would have continued if you hadn't been caught. What did you take the first time? Why did you think it necessary to steal boots worth such a lot of money

cheryl1967 Fri 19-Jan-18 21:24:50

I didnt think it was necessary, the first time it was a pair of underwear and I know I will need to pay the price and worst case scenario go to jail for a bit, spending time in a cell was horrible enough and I intend not to do the same again.

Eglantine21 Fri 19-Jan-18 21:30:26

You're very unlikely to go to jail unless you don't turn up for the hearing or do something else.

A bit worried that you say "it might be a good idea to get legal advice". I'm not sure reality has struck.

cheryl1967 Fri 19-Jan-18 21:37:25

Maybe tomorrow reality will strike even more, didnt get back from the police station to after 6, havent even changed out of the clothes I had on to work last night or was arrested in.

In another way it has struck as definetly dont want to end up in a freezing police cell again no matter how long for.

Grannyknot Fri 19-Jan-18 21:45:05

hmm ...

Auntieflo Fri 19-Jan-18 21:50:40

This OP is disclosing an awful lot of information. I am not convinced.

cheryl1967 Fri 19-Jan-18 21:55:14

Ok well if you are not convinced that is totally fine.

I dont need to waste to waste my time posting any longer if thats the case, no reason why anyone would make something like that up.