EglantineSo am I. Having spent over 30 years visiting friends and family in care homes, some self funding, others dependent onthe state. As a result one of my biggest securities going into old age is knowing that I can fund any care I need and not be dependent on the state.
I think it is utterly immoral and unjust to evade paying for your own care. If you can afford to pay for your own care it suggests that you have had a successful career and been paid well for it - or inherited money you didn't work for.. You will have worked hard but so will most people who have been in much less lucrative employment.
This means that your children will have had a head start in life; gone to good schools, to university, have good jobs, own their own house, if a child is handicapped or disabled in any way that is different.
By wriggling out of paying for care you are asking tax payers many of which will be less successful in life than you, earn much less, have children in poorer jobs, to bear the burden of paying for your care so that your children already living comfortably can receive a large sum of money when you die.
The selfishness of this is mind boggling.