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Lodger won't leave!!

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monnydite Thu 23-May-19 00:24:00

I am posting on behalf of a friend. He has taken in a lodger a year or so ago. He gave no agreement of any kind. He took £100 as a deposit. She has lots of belongings some of which are stored in his garage. She has kind of taken over his house. She is now bringing back men to the house and saying that she has every right to do so. My friend gave her 28 days notice which ended some days ago, but she said she was unable to find anywhere else live so refused to leave. He has told her that she can stay a few weeks longer for which she has paid her rent for and then she has to leave. She has just texted him and accused him of various behaviours such as being rude and threatening to her, which he certainly hasn't been, it's actually been the other way round!! Should he give her a further written notice saying she must leave when the two week period is up. If she refuses to leave again in a few weeks when the time comes, what should my friend do to get rid of her? Should he involve a solicitor?

phoenix Sat 25-May-19 16:37:27

monnydite???

Many members have responded to your request for advice, what are your thoughts on the advice you have been given?

Lorelei Sat 25-May-19 16:53:11

Your friend has given her notice, and more notice and still her behaviour is unreasonable. If the men she is bringing back to his house are 'boyfriends' she is out of order, if they are 'clients' it may be illegal! Your friend has been patient enough - get a big roll of black bin bags, bag all her crap up and launch it outside; if she doesn't collect it within a couple of days put the bags out with rest of the rubbish! Make sure he gets keys back and maybe changes the locks and adds a few more just to be doubly sure she can't get back in. If she is threatening him or trying to blackmail him just call the police and don't fall victim to any scam she is conjuring up! Hope your friend gets shot of her soon.

EmilyHarburn Sat 25-May-19 19:01:21

Lots of good advice above. Maybe this website would help.
www.gov.uk/rent-room-in-your-home/the-rent-a-room-scheme
Seems you would do well to have a locksmith who can change the locks.
My friend who was in this position got help from the police and the man who was the lodger left before they had to come round and advise him to leave.

JohnD Sat 25-May-19 19:10:47

C A B are useful for info and are very approachable.

Grandmama Sat 25-May-19 20:51:38

monnydite where are you? OP on Thursday, it's now Saturday night. Lots of grans have been very helpful.

SparklyGrandma Sat 25-May-19 20:56:20

Change the locks! As a lodger living in his home, he has given her written notice. He needs a couple of friends to be with him for when she comes home say after work.

Wish him luck.

Bathsheba Sat 25-May-19 21:44:51

I am surprised that monnydite hasn't been back to comment - for the best part of three days now hmm. So many people have given up their time to offer advice, and I'm kind of wondering now whether it was time well spent...

Lilyflower Sun 26-May-19 15:28:52

Your friend needs to take the above advice and get rid of this woman.

Then he should avoid having another lodger ever again.

phoenix Sun 26-May-19 15:46:04

If indeed the advice has been read.

It certainly hasn't been acknowledged!

callgirl1 Sun 26-May-19 21:13:52

I seem to remember another case like this a couple of years ago, it was very similar to this one.