It has taken me years to do but I finally think that I am taking responsibility for my financial things. Have been on my own for years now, in my marriage my ex took full control and I had no idea about anything - did not know what was coming in and what was going out. I have got to a point now where I have finally paid off my mortgage (after a lot of hard work and worry), I am in a job I enjoy and have got some promotion - I was never previously interested in a career. I do not have a lot of money but have no debt and manage with what I have and am content with that. I put my head in the sand for years but in the last few months I have got a picture of what my income and outgoings are and have shopped around for better energy and internet deals and home insurance etc etc. I get the Mail on Wednesday for their money pullout and listen to money programmes on the radio. I have spoken to a financial advisor at my building society but of course you pay for ongoing advice, it is not cheap but I think it is going to be worth it to do once a year to keep a handle on things. A lot of people would think I am quite poor but it is satisfying to know I am making the most of what I have and I feel less worried about the future. It is an ongoing process though, I don't want to let things slide and for things to get back to how they were in the past where I was scared to open letters and emails . Would be interested to know how others have taken control of their finances and where they get their knowledge and support from and how they keep on top of financial affairs and bills and motivated to do so. Many thanks in advance.
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