Primrose53 - if that happened to you you were very unlucky. What a crazy system. Hopefully very few people know people holding grudges against the deceased or their beneficiaries would be doing it.
Funnily enough MIL did fall out with a lot of people not related to her in the past but not sure how they'd find out that she died.
Are extra-marital affairs the answer?
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