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Is it best if we get married ?

(40 Posts)
Nightsky2 Tue 26-Nov-24 15:23:23

Yes, it’s the advice my DH would have given to any one of his clients had they asked him for it. Nothing to do with the Labour Party just a very sensible thing to do.

Davida1968 Tue 26-Nov-24 15:20:26

Legally & financially - yes, absolutely!
Emotionally - only if you're really sure, IMO. Be sure that you want to make that commitment for forever..... Are you sure you want to look after each other in old age?
(Just being realistic from my perceptions of some people's marriages.) Good luck!

Ladyleftfieldlover Tue 26-Nov-24 15:20:16

Elder son and his partner have been together for over 10 years. They own a property and have a daughter. When she was born they both had to register her name as son is not legally allowed to do so on his own. No sign of marriage. Don’t know why.

Calendargirl Tue 26-Nov-24 15:13:33

Yes, Martin Lewis recommends it (for tax purposes) if nothing else.

Cossy Tue 26-Nov-24 15:11:34

Yes, and has been so for many many years

FriedGreenTomatoes2 Tue 26-Nov-24 14:48:32

Yes. It’s why our Yorkshire Lass and her gorgeous partner married last year after 11years together. As she said “it’s just the sensible thing to do mum now we own a property between us. It’s not a ‘wedding’ it’s a marriage and we’re just going to Leeds Registry office on a Monday morning with two witnesses”.

I do love saying “my son in law” though! He’s fab. ☺️

Gummie Tue 26-Nov-24 14:43:23

yes

MaizieD Tue 26-Nov-24 14:42:41

Yes, definitely. That's what I and my partner of 40+ years have done.

As others say, it's nothing to do with Labour, it's always been the most efficient thing to do if you're going to be in the IHT bracket.

Norah Tue 26-Nov-24 14:32:15

Yes.

vegansrock Tue 26-Nov-24 14:27:03

It’s always been more tax efficient to marry so I’m not sure why you are thanking the Labour Party .

Shelflife Tue 26-Nov-24 13:53:34

Marriage -yes.

Jaxjacky Tue 26-Nov-24 13:28:54

Definitely, it’s the main reason we married a few years ago.
Congratulations 💒!!

Hellsbelles Tue 26-Nov-24 12:56:25

Thought as much , perhaps we can invite Kier Starmer , Rachel Reeves etc al.
Getting married thanks to the labour party ! How romantic .

Chocolatelovinggran Tue 26-Nov-24 12:52:30

Yes.

Hellsbelles Tue 26-Nov-24 12:51:30

My partner and I are have lived together 25+ years , no children together, not married . His pension pot and assests are over the limit for inheritance tax .
As pensions are going to be included from 2027 is it better for us to marry before then because married or civil partners are exempt ? ( from my understanding )