Sorry - only just picked this up. Unfortunately I'm away that day on a my London grand-daughter's school's whole family trip to Littlehampton. Next time perhaps. I am delighted my original post has brought people together.
Deedaa - I hope your husband recovers well. It was lovely to meet you at Chessington.
In answer to your question Gorki, I think the main reason is that it's really hard to fix dates with Gransnetters who seem to have such busy lives, especially at this time of year. I also think some people value their anonymity & a few are nervous of meeting strangers. Have a good natter next week,