Nannyfran, perhaps my Dad worked along side your Dad, I may have given your Dad tea and sandwiches , so long ago.
I would like to take this opportunity to say to who ever reads this, regarding PTS - the Aberfan disaster happened in 1966, it was horrific , time passed, in 1996 I was watching the news and reports came through of Dunblane, I watched , I cried, I prayed as did the country. The following day I just couldn't go out of my front door, my knees buckled , will not bore you with details, was diagnosed with Agoraphobia, went throught usual treatment , didn't help. Eventually my father arranged for me to see a psychiatrist privately , no medication, during the treatment came the most vivid flashback , the mothers in Dunblane racing to the school and the Mothers in Aberfan racing to the school , I had not thought of the latter as I watched the events in Dunblane.
Forgive me for talking about myself but there may be someone here who this may help, there was a thirty year gap between these horrors when the phobia hit me I was going to pick up my little grandson from nursery school , Aberfan and Dunblane were not in my thoughts , yet the three blew a fuse
Apologies for this long post