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fibroids after menopause

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jami Mon 08-Jun-20 17:00:30

Thank you very much for your replies and advice....JackyB I think they cannot open the neck of the womb after menopause so a D & C could not be done

JackyB Mon 08-Jun-20 15:16:38

Just get a hysterectomy. But I doubt it will be keyhole if your uterus is full of fibroids.

Has no one mentioned a D&C or don't they do that any more?

Oldbat1 Mon 08-Jun-20 13:27:15

I had enormous fibroids! One size of melon and another grapefruit and a few oranges. Seemingly I brought theatre to a standstill! I was bigger tummy wise than when I had twins. Had open surgery due to size and had my ovaries removed at same time. I felt immediately wonderful when I woke up from surgery. My advice definitely go for it!

Tangerine Mon 08-Jun-20 13:04:55

Hysterectomies vary. If you are fortunate (I wasn't), you will have a keyhole operation. Otherwise, it will mean a horizontal or vertical scar and I think the size of the fibroids will determine that.

I had enormous fibroids too although I can't say they hurt or caused excessive bleeding so I guess I was fortunate. The consultant advised a hysterectomy and I had one. I had no doubts about wanting it.

Yes, it's a big operation but I think it's worth it. I also had the ovaries and fallopian tubes removed. As I had relations who'd had ovarian cancer, I was quite keen to have them removed.

Good luck!

fevertree Mon 08-Jun-20 13:04:47

Crikey, have a hysterectomy. I had one vaginally (if that's the right word) no incision. Best thing ever after having really problematic and painful periods all my life.

Welcome by the way.

Oopsadaisy3 Mon 08-Jun-20 12:29:08

I had it in my late 30s due to fibroids, I was nearly on the floor with the bleeding and very anaemic.
I’ve never looked back, also sailed through the menopause,( which might or might not have anything to do with it).

jami Mon 08-Jun-20 11:35:27

Wow, I thought it was a huge operation? They can do it keyhole? Did she have NHS or private? My thoughts were: I suffered being totally disabled a few days every 3 weeks for years- if only I could have had a hysterectomy then but didnt know what was wrong. My doctor didnt take much notice of the period problems I reported, as I had so many problems because of long term chronic fatigue syndrome ( severe anaemia was treated though) he didnt want to hear anymore I guess. I would be a bit worried about an op because of the cfs- I am recovered but only to a third of my strength- half strength on good periods, but prone to relapse with new infections, viruses, and probably operations! So a lot to balance out I guess...

Tweedle24 Mon 08-Jun-20 11:32:23

I had a hysterectomy (ovaries too) about 20 years ago for fibroids. Like Katyj’s friend, pretty well best thing I had ever done (except perhaps knee replacement three years ago lol).

Katyj Mon 08-Jun-20 11:19:35

Hi Jami I have a friend with similar problems although she had endometriosis as well ,so suffered a lot of pain she is 60. She opted for a hysterectomy last year , she said it’s the best thing she’s done, should have done it years ago.Had key hole surgery general anaesthetic, and was home 5 hours later feeling much better . Good luck.

jami Mon 08-Jun-20 11:07:48

Hello. This is my first post and glad I found you. Here's my current menopause story! I am 66 today. I started menopause around 58. I had always had massive, disabling periods every 3 weeks, so was glad at the thought of being free from them. Bleeding over the menopause continued on and off. I had ultrasound 4 years ago due to bleeding and they found my womb was full of fibroids. The gynacologist said they often set up mini bleeding cycles for themselves. (relatively little seems to be known about them) Well they could not see the lining of the womb because of the fibroids, so - it was left at that.

Last week I went again (to a very empty hospital wearing mask) This was because I had had period type pains for a couple of weeks after fairly energetic sex. I have a retroverted uterus, so I thought it may be to do with that and the uncomfortable sexual intercourse position- maybe ligaments strained? Anyway doctor said I had to have ultrasound again, because of show of blood, to check for womb lining thickness re cancer. Hence the visit in covid 19 times. I pointed out they wouldnt see the lining due to fibroids. He said, after 4 years of the menopause they wouldve shrunk. Well they hadnt, and they could not see the lining of the womb.
I have been on HRT (Kliovance) for about 6 years because of mental symptoms- depressions, anxiety, rages, really saddening, as I have a lovely husband, now 11 years together.
I went to see a female GP re my ultrasound scan. She said they don't know what to do next as it is impossible to get into the womb after menopause die to it being closed- this was the same 4 years ago: no sample could be taken. She said di I want the fibroids removed! Did I want a hysterectomy? I do not knoe. I tend to feel leave well alone. Please share your thoughts and any insight into this that you may have. I would love to know if anyone has similar experiences. I have just restarted my Kliovance after two massive out of control rages , which began with simple discussions I cannot remember what. But my husband is an engineer and a bit 'on the spectrum'. He tries to help, but it usuall y goes wrong because nothing can help me. I stopped Kliovance cold turkey as I thought it was causing the fibroids to stay plump. But it is the lowest dose available and I only took it every other day. It seems even that low dose is very important vis a vis keeping sane.