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Sad death of Hindu mother in Catholic Ireland

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JessM Wed 14-Nov-12 15:20:01

This is such a sad story. Irish abortion law is a disgrace when doctors do not feel able to operate when mother is critically ill.
www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-northern-ireland-20321741

absentgrana Fri 16-Nov-12 08:35:29

In 1950 in this country, my father was asked to sign a form saying that, if a choice had to be made, he wished the life of his unborn child (me) to be saved at the expense of my mother's.

Greatnan Fri 16-Nov-12 08:45:26

This was one of the issues that made me an atheist at an early age. We were discussing in RE what should happen in, say a road accident involving a heavily pregnant woman, where doctors could save the life of only one. The nun teaching us said very firmly that the baby must be saved because it had not been baptised, even if the mother had other children. What a load of bovine faeces - even at 12 I could work that one out.
When are Irish women going to speak up and tell the men who run their lives what they think of them?

JessM Fri 16-Nov-12 08:48:28

Trouble is they have now settled into this "neither fish nor fowl" situation where it is not legal in Ireland. But - big but - (for women who an afford it) they can come over to UK on Ryanair and have a private abortion. And it is not illegal in Ireland to do this, or to help someone to do this.

Nanadog Fri 16-Nov-12 09:11:52

Would the administration of prophylactic antibiotics at the beginning have made any difference?
Medics please answer.

JessM Fri 16-Nov-12 10:24:10

If a mother at any stage in pregnancy is admitted with ruptured membranes there is a risk of an infection travelling from her vagina into her uterus. This is one reason why women get induced - membranes ruptured, clock ticking. The foetus does not have an immune system at this stage so would not be able to deal with any bacteria via this route. Mother's immune system of only limited help at this point in the proceedings.
Whether antibiotics work or not depends on whether they hit the particular bug that is causing the infection. Not all antibiotics kill all bacteria. Think of MRSA - very difficult to kill. Broad spectrum antibiotics are used sometimes in hospital in the hope of zapping whatever is causing the problem. But they are not without side effects and don't always work.
Viable foetus at 17 weeks - not a chance. The youngest ever 2 were at 21 weeks - a whole month on. Even at 24 weeks it is about 50% - very touch and go with many dying or being disabled if they do survive.
So presumably the doctor felt that because of the law all they could do was wait until the foetus either aborted or died and give antibiotic cover while they waited. But until enquiries are in we do not really know sequence of events.
(Not a medic but consider myself a medical writer these days, and ex NCT teacher, so i had to absorb the textbooks at the time.)

isthisallthereis Fri 16-Nov-12 10:48:59

I'm not being critical of the Original Post, but the word "sad" in it riles me every time.

It's not sad, it's appalling and a disgrace for the reputation of Ireland. Truly shameful. Not sad in my book. Grrrr.

Greatnan Fri 16-Nov-12 11:17:23

It is all of those things. I am sure her family are very sad. Like you, I am enraged.

annodomini Fri 16-Nov-12 11:23:28

I don't see how one can fail to feel outraged at the system that permitted this tragedy and sad for the impact on the family.

JessM Fri 16-Nov-12 11:51:34

I am outraged that women's rights are still so limited in many countries. Sad about this young woman who came to a sad end, whatever the cause.
Will be angry if investigations reveal that it is not "mere" misfortune or medical negligence that caused her death.

jeni Fri 16-Nov-12 12:12:10

Nanadog the answer is not a definite yes but a probably. It should have been combined with an evacuation of the uterine contents.

Riverwalk Fri 16-Nov-12 12:28:59

I'm so angry at the avoidable death of this young woman that I can barely articulate what I want to say.

Aside from possible medical negligence, misinterpretation of the law, human error, etc., we know the real reason this poor girl was in this position was because of the diktats of the RC church, that still hold sway in this day and age.

vampirequeen Fri 16-Nov-12 14:05:20

I keep pointing out that under the Catholic Church diktats she could have had an abortion in these circumstances. I rarely defend the Catholic Church but this time it's the Irish government that's to blame not the Church.

annodomini Fri 16-Nov-12 14:13:17

Has the Catholic church in Ireland expressed any regrets?

Greatnan Fri 16-Nov-12 15:14:57

Surely, if the teaching were to be made less opaque it would be less likely to cause such awful tragedies. I have read the 'information' several times and it is incredibly hard to grasp.
How much longer can the catholic church hold on to the loyalty of intelligent people?

JessM Fri 16-Nov-12 15:43:06

I agree - if the "party line" of the Catholic Church is contained in the link you posted VQ how on earth do you, or they, expect non-theologians to hack their way through the undergrowth and understand what they are trying to say?
The trouble is that once you adopt the moral stance that the "soul" comes into being at the moment the sperm busts into the egg, you have an ethical problem with abortion. Because how are you, or anyone else, to decide that one "soul" is more worth keeping on planet earth than another "soul".

But along with the CC's opposition to contraception their stance on abortion appears, from where I am standing, to be a long-term cynical plan to ensure the maximum numbers of catholic births. More "souls" for heaven (sometimes rather rapidly, if the body was born into a third world slum) and if they happen to survive, more money in the coffers. Little catholic lives are very cheap if their mothers happen to be very poor. Doesn't matter about them getting the inside track to the gates of heaven - so why is it such a big deal to preserve the life of a foetus? And a foetus that is not even destined for catholic baptism!
As someone who does not believe in the existence of a spirit or soul of any kind, i think abortion is unpleasant and better avoided for all kinds of reasons, but when the chips are down, if it is a choice between a fully formed adult with an intellect and a personality and a potential person in the form of a foetus. No contest. But do they come out and say very clearly and concisely "the catholic teaching is to prioritise the mother and, if it is necessary to protect the mother from death or serious damage, a doctor should sacrifice the foetus" hmm
And are you suggesting VQ that the stance of successive Irish governments on this is not driven by Catholic teachings? Or is it just a misogynistic conspiracy using Catholic teaching or lack of clarity as a convenient excuse?

vampirequeen Fri 16-Nov-12 16:56:07

I'm not making any excuses for the archaic and frankly misogynistic teachings of the Catholic Church. It's just that the hospital said it happened because it was a Catholic country but actually it happened because someone who framed a law that was alledgedly based on Catholic teachings got it wrong. I know the teaching is complicated but it doesn't say much for Irish civil servants, lawyers and politicians if they fail to grasp what A level students are taught in this country. My daughter brought this to my attention when she was 17 and studying Ethics as part of her Catholic based A level Religious Education. If a 17 year old can discover and understand this then those who framed the law surely should have done.

I would like to point out yet again that I'm not a Catholic apologist. There is so much wrong with the Catholic Church that it bears virtually no resemblance to the teachings of the man it's supposed to follow. It's just that this time, although Ireland is a Catholic country, it's not the teachings of the Church that killed the poor young woman but the failings of the Irish law.

JessM Fri 16-Nov-12 17:18:36

I understand you are not sticking up for them VQ but the issue would seem to be, if I understand correctly, that the Irish law is this, as explained in wikipedia:

At independence from the UK in 1922, the Offences against the Person Act 1861 remained in force, maintaining all abortions to be illegal and subject to punishment
then
In 1983 the Constitution of Ireland was amended to add the Eighth Amendment, which asserted that the unborn had an explicit right to life from the time of conception.
then after the 14 year old rape victim case, the constitution was amended as I posted above. But there is no "abortion law" at all. Just the 1861 law. So they have never actually passed a law to help doctors make a decision.
Time Irish women started demanding one I think.

JessM Sat 17-Nov-12 12:06:31

www.facebook.com/events/243742145755096/

There is a demonstration planned in Dublin this afternoon. Any Dublin GNners?