Radio 5

Thank God they went on a bus! (says so in Telegraph)

Father of girl who went with the granddad is behaving reasonably about the error it seems..feeling it was a 'confused old man' at fault!

All sorts of odd things though..why did the child have the medicine?

Headteacher must be going mad trying now to stop gaps you never dream of! So hard to anticipate for every possible scenario..I mean who would have thought it!

I did once have a child who when an unknown (to us) uncle came to collect him (mum had said her brother was coming) the child denied all knowledge of the chap! I had to phone his mum to double check! Poor bloke was so embarrassed!

At grandsons' school the teacher has to be informed if anyone other than the parent is collecting a child. Commonsense really.

Wonder when it's going to be on? Or perhaps it's been on.

I think the school knew a child was being collected by a grandad for a doc appointment. He just took the wrong child!!

Most schools nowadays do have a 'going home book' where parents have to complete details if someone other than known parents are collecting.

My DDs always fill it in if I am picking up even though I am a Gov at the school and the staff know me well.

Yes but the mother speaking to the teacher face to face would have made it clear which child was involved. Wouldn't it?

At my gs's school anyone other than the parent has to have a password!

Good heavens! I think that's going a bit far, Lona!

And if a man can't remember what his grandaughter looks like he's going to be pretty clueless about a password.

My GSs' nursery had a password system, but I don't think their primary school goes that far.

My grandson is in his third year at school [can't believe it] and the teachers still watch them as they leave. When he sees us he always has to go to his teacher and say he knows us. Mind you, I must admit that he looks very like one of his friends and both grannies have, for a split second got them mixed up . At his brothers nursery I have to use a pass word if I collect him.

My GD's teachers do the same thing, Tegan - the children have to say they know the person collecting them if it isn't someone known to the staff.

That's why this story seems so strange - it seems the teacher just handed the child over to the 'granddad' without question!

Well at least the child is safe. What beggars belief is that the Grandfather didn't recognise his own granddaughter. And the school's Safeguarding Procedures need to be revised (perhaps at an INSET day!!).

Our GS's school operates a password system. If the teacher doesn't recognise you when you come to collect a child they ask for and check the password.

I did once wave across the playground to my 'grandson' when I came to pick him up, and was walking towards the look-alike, only to realise my actual GS was coming out of a different door. The look-alike waved back! Truly a Specsavers moment.

My DIL has to email photos of DH and I to school when collecting GC and even to younger ones child minder, not that there is any doubt as she screams Granda and hurtles through the playground usually knocking me flying to reach Granda.
I would be concerned that the old man didn't know his grandchild well enough to recognise her, obviously not competent to look after her.

It's just not fair is it Harrigran.

If the teacher said , ' Susan is heere your grandad to take you to the doctor' and Susan B got up and went, apparently happily, and Susan A sat still then the teacher probably thought she had got it wrong!

Middle of the day collections are usually through the school office so it does sound as if the school did not have quite tight enough checks in place but I do think granddad needs to take some of the responsibility blame. Good job no real harm was done!