I had been wondering whether to mention this but seeing that bit about your car - well, pretty dreadful I think, but DS has a friend with very wealthy parents who live about 40 mins north of us, almost an hour to get into Bury St.Edmunds, but she drives in to do all her shopping there rather than the nearer shops. Then she leaves her car parked there all day and goes shopping and to the cinema or lunch. Which may not mean much to many of you, but they only give you 2 free hours (and you have to spend over £20) in that carpark and after that it is £25 for the day. She used to want to meet me for coffee and couldn't understand why I parked in Rams Meadow for under £3.