Well said, rosequartz. You can't change geography, nor can you change history, so the argument "my dad fought in the Second World War" as a reason for voting No becomes pointless. So did mine, and I'm intending to vote Yes.
If we become independent, we will have to stand by our own decisions, and will not be able to blame anyone else; it's interesting that at least since the establishment of the Scottish Parliament there has been a lot of complaining about Westminster governments, but much less blaming of "the English" in general than there once was. Wouldn't it be better for England to have a friendly neighbour than what has been described as a surly lodger?