It can do, soon. Provocation is not always bad. If someone provokes me into thinking more deeply about something and possibly even changing my mind about the subject, why need I feel hurt or offended? I ought rather to be grateful to the 'provoker'.
If I interpret something as being deliberately nasty (it's worth remembering that interpretations are usually subjective in such cases and can be way off the mark), then, if I feel hurt, which I'd only feel if it were untrue, I tell myself that the 'insult' (i.e. what I've interpreted as an insult or an offence) says more about the insulter than about me and I try to shrug it off accordingly. I suppose it comes down to having a strong sense of self respect. If someone thinks, for instance, that my views on gods are stupid and that I'm stupid for holding such views, then so be it. People thinking such things or saying such things doesn't change anything. So, if someone thinks my faith in the godlessness of the universe is stupid, they're welcome to think so and to say so in whatever way they like. It doesn't make any difference to how I feel or to what I believe. New evidence, of the sort I understand, on the other hand (think Galileo and bods of his ilk again), might well make a difference, even to convince me that there are such things as gods.
Sorry. Long post. You did ask 