Trisher
I don't know what generation you are from, but I know that I strove to give my children a far better life than I ever had. To this day I live on a weekly amount that many youth spend on a night out. We were brought up in a saving culture which resulted in money for deposits, holidays abroad were only for the rich, most girls had a 'bottom drawer' saving for marriage. My first marital home was a two up one down, no bath, cold water only and toilet at the bottom of the garden. Furniture all second hand. Would kids today tolerate this?
I worked hard, paid for my own tertiary education and having worked from the age of 16 (whereas most children do not start work until around 23) to retirement I worked my way into a good employment position and paid for my own home which incidentally I only bough 4 years ago. It was not a show house, needed work, but at least it had hot water and an internal toilet thus time 