We are not wealthy country we are trillions in debt and the burden of that debt has to be borne by our children and grand children.
I despair of the nonsense that suggests everything is affordable because it isn't and all the time is made less affordable by the ways in which we run things. The NHS is massively wasteful and has been for decades. I worked in NHS complaints and could see it every day. We just whitewashed things and learnt nothing.
Charities now are appealing for vols all the time to help with the loneliness issue, drive people to hospital, befriend people etc. The training that goes along with keeping the charities going is bizarre, and doesn't ensure safety for anyone, except the people on salaries at the top of the charity.
When are we going to wake up to the fact, that paying people to do even the simplest things cost a bloody fortune because of the way we do that stuff. The value we get got that money is often appalling.
I remember 'bob a job week' when boy Scouts came and for modest cost did a job that needed doing, now we have these vetted handyman schemes, expensive and deplorable standard at times. We used to have more church visitors and almoners in hospitals and replaced them all with politically correct 'volunteer schemes' and degree qualified people, half of whom could not find their bum with both hands.
We have extracted people's faith in their own neighbours and communities and even strangers to assist them ( although evidence of this is surrounds us. The vetting, training industry is rife and slows things down and no one is safer really, we just think they are.
The environment disables us, traffic moving too fast in built up areas, steep kerbs, lack of benches and public toilets, parks where people with dogs are no longer welcome, where is the life that older people used to enjoy. We are all but kettled in our own homes by the built environment. We are unfit when we can't go for walks and lonely when we can't sit on a bench and chat or potter around the town where they are no facilities.
We have so many things to help us now we ought to be out there in the main stream of life for longer, but are instead another resource for people who want to feel good about themselves to make use of.
Fifteen years ago, I moved into Devon and almost immediately had a knock on my door to inform me that I had to 'water Olive's plants' as the person who usually did it was going on holiday for a fortnight. Olive was blind and rather helpless and I was handed the baton to keep an eye on her as it was deemed my neighbourly duty.and I did it gladly.
We have been encouraged not to trust each other, when that very trust worked for years and the replacements are slow, costly and less accommodating of needs.
Pay more is only part of the solution, do more is instant, caring, personal, rewarding, why don't we just do it?
I am often unable to do much, but manage somehow and would be happy to ask for help if I needed it. I have had to ask strangers to assist a few times, never been refused help and people been happy to help, just as I am happy given the opportunity to help someone.
It is often the very smallest services that people miss.........yet can easily be done by someone who does not need to be more than helpful.