Today the new benefit regulations come into force and I received this via facebook. Is there anyone on this forum prepared to justify this Tory Government decision?
^I cannot begin to tell you how angry this makes me. Women being asked to fill out a form and provide proof that they were raped in order to still get benefits for a third child. Having to sign to agree they are not in a relationship with the person who raped them. Having to get a professional person (who are in no way trained to make that assessment) to agree you were forced.
The mere idea of this is nauseating, the actual application of it will cause harm to people who have already been harmed enough.
It means letting your child know how they came about, it means defining what happened to you in strict legal terms, it means that many won't claim, it means people looking at you like you are making it up to get the money, it means that private hurt becomes public property, it means telling a faceless official you were raped and having to justify it, having to explain why it wasn't your fault, your wish, justify why it was their fault not yours. You have to tell the governments nominated person what he did to you, why you froze and didn't' fight back, why you didn't tell the police straight after, why it why it was your boyfriend, your husband, your Dad, and it's not that easy to say no, and how if the police were involved your whole family would break apart, how you are afraid your kids will go into care if there was violence in the house, so you said nothing....
... and you have to confirm all your shame, hurt and pain, on a form so it can get fed into a computer in the hopes you are believed....
.... so that you can be given a pittance of money to keep your children fed and clothed.
This is disgraceful. This was slipped into law without even a parliamentary vote, on the day of Donald Trump;s inauguration. While the man accused of assaulting more than 20 women was being given the most powerful job in the world, Westminster put in the most medieval law we have seen in modern times^.
^SNP MP Alison Thewliss has been working tirelessly to get this repealed and get some focus on this issue, but Westminster rode rough shod over all the pleas from charities and support groups to remove this law.... and all so that they can make sure 3rd children don't get any money to live on..... while the well heeled down south are getting a cut in their taxes...
I ask you, what kind of morally bankrupt society would do such a thing?^
Not My Country.