Some of us would like more than anything to remain in the EU, along with our Irish friends, but if we have to leave then at least we hope to remain in the single market and customs union.
If the extreme brexiteers have their way this will not happen. The Republic of Ireland will keep free movement of people, goods and services with the rest of the EU. We will not keep any of these freedoms, so what will happen at the Irish border?
Brussels will defend Ireland; they look after their own. Why should they take our side against them? It must be nice to belong to a huge organisation that puts your interests first. Maybe we should join something like that one day...
So Brussels has formally announced that Ireland will get the final veto - no surprises there. Sinn Fein has announced that if the Tories prioritise the DUP over the Northern Irish will of the people, then Ireland should use the veto.
No surprises there either. Pity Sinn Fein doesn’t put principles of a life time aside and threaten to take their seats in Westminster.
What is quite striking is that there are very few mumsnetters who admit to voting leave, and even those that do , don't seem to have an answer to the Irish question.
I know that younger folk voted Remain in larger numbers than oldies did, and perhaps mumsnetters are not a random cross section of young parents, but it is so noticeable that many of them feel angry and even despairing about the brexit vote. They feel that their children are being cheated of the opportunities which the EU gave us.
As you say many of these posters live or have lived in Ireland, (either or both parts) and well understand the dangers presented by a return to a hard border. I also notice that this thread has filled up very quickly. I wonder what has to happen for the whole brexit nonsense to just stop.
And of course we must not forget that we were told in no uncertain terms that there would never need to be a border by the leave campaign. Anything else they declared was project fear.
whitewave - do you mean because trade talks can't go ahead until the Irish border question is settled? I did wonder about that. Or do you mean something different?
Did you see Michael Portillo on the Andrew Neil prog last night? He didn't see the Irish border problem as a problem at all. He said we should do nothing and if the EU want a border there they can instigate it themselves.
I'm sure that the BBC must have been warned off showing their Remain colours in the last year. After the referendum the BBC seemed shocked and unbelieving at the result, but in recent months, they seem not to press hard with questions about Brexit. Some, like John Humphreys and Dimbleby seem blatantly pro Brexit. Nick Robinson definitely tows the Tory line. Andrew Marr doesn't seem to question blatant Brexit lies as in the recent James Dyson interview. I'm afraid I don't think of the BBC as an impartial source of news any more.