Although I have voted SNP for several years, it's not because I am a rabid, dyed-in -the-wool nationalist.
I vote for a party that is left of centre, whose social policies I like.
GN has shown me so clearly, on an individual family level, that I am far happier here than I ever could be in England. This is not about being anti-english but about being anti-tory and anti the appalling policies being imposed on all of us by Westminster.
Education
I don't want my family to have the stress involved in the allocation of school places in the rotten free schools and rigid academies process.
Housing
I do want my 19 year-old GD to be saving optimistically with the realistic prospect of buying her own flat in a couple of years.
I do want my sick daughter to have the better level of protection she has in a privately-rented home while depending on housing benefit.
NHS
I don't want to see my DiL and new GS chucked out of hospital hours after he arrived.
I do want the wonderful, caring and flexible approach they've enjoyed while dealing with mild jaundice and the time and support given so patiently while feeding is established.
I want my daughter to have access to all the support she needs without having to deal with the problems associated with the ever-encroaching privatisation of the NHS in England.
Care
I am proud that Scotland has been in the forefront by providing free personal care for the elderly and now also for younger people with severe disabilities.
I won't touch on the macro stuff like brexit and trade deals but will mention that I do want to see us free of nuclear bases.
I've opted to concentrate on the micro issues affecting families and communities.
So a choice between sitting at an EU table alongside similar sized independent countries or being dragged along in directions I don't want to go?
I'll vote for independence for Scotland with as much conviction as I voted to remain in the EU.